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Am I ugly or do I have self esteem issues?

Wondering why I get all these matches on Tinder and yet nobody ever messages me back. For other girls my age, they can get a date so easy. But for me it’s like pulling teeth.

I’m wondering if i’m just ugly or have bad luck.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Your profile here says that you're asexual. Does your tinder bio also say that?
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
@Dolimyte It does actually
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@QueenOfZaun tinder is a hook up app, try Bumble or Hinge or something else.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
I think you are quite attractive
ErecSchunn · 46-50, M
Haven’t really talked to you much, but you are attractive. If you advertise asexuality on tinder that could be why. People swipe w/o looking at profiles generally, so physically they find you attractive- it’s after that point they lose interest. Either because of what’s in your profile or what you say. This isn’t me trying to insult.

I gave up on tinder because it’s just a bunch of horndogs from all sexes wanting one nighters and that doesn’t fit me
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Well, you’re attractive , so that’s not the issue.

Here you advertise yourself as goth and bipolar. Both are turn offs to most mature men.

Erase those adjectives and just be who you are. Your date will define the woman he sees and the fun he has being in your company.

Don’t create prejudice unnecessarily. People grow and change naturally. Life isn’t a constant.
Ferric67 · M
Looks only matter some
It's character and personality that really move things along

My suggestion, you see a guy that you fancy go after him. Make your point obvious, because us guys, are terrible at getting hints and analyzing clues.

Got me Zaun? Am I making sense?
Tracos · 51-55, M
you are definitely not ugly!
Sodabot · 26-30, M
Looks like you have both 😂
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
@Sodabot Incel
SW-User
People are bad luck
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
Seen your album can’t see why Tinder isn’t working 🤷‍♂️ you look really pretty to me and gorgeous figure too gorgeous big boobs great looking cleavage and outfits to decorate
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
@QuietEd2019 Thank you
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
@QueenOfZaun you’re welcome gorgeous
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
The people you match with are probably all fakes. Go join a gym, or swimming lessons, or scuba diving or something. Someplace where you mingle with normal people, and then you can be friends with a gender you like, and maybe find that perfect match.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
People are swiping on you because they think you're hot and probably not talking further because you're ace, Tinder is for hookups.

I'd use a different app searching for a partner.
come2gether · 46-50, M
You're obviously not ugly on the outside, but you could be perceived as ugly on the inside based on your facial expressions and description of yourself.
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
@come2gether That’s fair.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@QueenOfZaun
I’m wondering if i’m just ugly or have bad luck.

Definitely not my type. But there are millions of guys who would love to have you as part of their lives forever. You will meet some one day, maybe tomorrow.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
Your style intimidates the regular everyday crowd

You need to find people that you vibe with
Animalvan · 56-60, M
Think your hot…don’t know why they stop…i wouldn’t
Pretty women gets ignored too.

You probably just have bad luck.
matthewjames · 18-21, M
wat do you look like?
QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F
@matthewjames I have pictures on my profile
matthewjames · 18-21, M
@QueenOfZaun I saw and sent you message with wat I think of you :)
SW-User
Maybe youre aiming to high on Tinder?
Jammer6475 · 46-50, M
No I do not think you are ugly
Panamared · 70-79, M
You are not ugly
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I'd never use online dating sites/apps as any kind of reflection of reality. Most likely a bad luck streak, we all get those.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You’re not ugly, you are pretty. Your style isn’t soft which is typical.
tenente · 100+, M
i don't use dating apps but is it a freemium vs premium issue? paying members experience more results? just a thought, idk
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