Am I ugly or do I have self esteem issues?

Wondering why I get all these matches on Tinder and yet nobody ever messages me back. For other girls my age, they can get a date so easy. But for me it’s like pulling teeth.

I’m wondering if i’m just ugly or have bad luck.

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Adogslife · 61-69, M

Well, you’re attractive , so that’s not the issue.

Here you advertise yourself as goth and bipolar. Both are turn offs to most mature men.

Erase those adjectives and just be who you are. Your date will define the woman he sees and the fun he has being in your company.

Don’t create prejudice unnecessarily. People grow and change naturally. Life isn’t a constant.