Am I ugly or do I have self esteem issues?

Wondering why I get all these matches on Tinder and yet nobody ever messages me back. For other girls my age, they can get a date so easy. But for me it’s like pulling teeth.

I’m wondering if i’m just ugly or have bad luck.

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ErecSchunn · 46-50, M

Haven’t really talked to you much, but you are attractive. If you advertise asexuality on tinder that could be why. People swipe w/o looking at profiles generally, so physically they find you attractive- it’s after that point they lose interest. Either because of what’s in your profile or what you say. This isn’t me trying to insult.

I gave up on tinder because it’s just a bunch of horndogs from all sexes wanting one nighters and that doesn’t fit me