Emilie92 · 31-35, F
No I cant, I can be emotionally connected to one person but not sexually committed
Convivial · 26-30, F
I think monogamy is not natural... Few people have that ability... And by that I include thoughts not just actions
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Stay attracted long term yes. But I think it's healthy and normal to be curious about your surroundings.

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Im still very much attracted to my husband, still very happy to see him dripping wet from the shower etc and I think more so now because we built a home and family together and he's part of so many memories and my hopes for the future. I absolutely love the bones of him but it doesn't mean I don't get attracted to other men, I just choose to ignore the attraction, I know they could never offer me what my husband can 🙂
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@SW-User I love this ❣️
I think it’s impossible to not look at anyone else in a way of curiosity.
I think it’s also very realistic to stay faithful to one person if they reciprocated the effort and idea towards you.
I think it’s also very realistic to stay faithful to one person if they reciprocated the effort and idea towards you.
subhubby · 56-60, M
I am still very very attracted to my wife and we have been married 32 years, together 37. I also choose to ignore any other attraction I may have. My wife is my Goddess and I love pleasing her more than any other attraction could provide. I am blessed to serve and love her every day.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
the trick is to look but not touch
as a friend's momma told her hubby
"I don't care wear you get your appetite - but you better come home to eat"
as a friend's momma told her hubby
"I don't care wear you get your appetite - but you better come home to eat"
exexec · 70-79, C
I can definitely stay attracted to one person, but I can still admire beauty, physical and inner beauty, when I see it in others.

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Those in the healthiest of marriages understand that we belong with each other and not to each other. In that way, we can look and find other people attractive, as is natural unless you somehow turned your hormones off, but we don't act on those feelings because we belong with our husband. We can even admit we find others attractive and trust that the boundaries acceptable to both partners are never broken.
Maybe some people can but for others it might be difficult
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Yeah

SW-User
Yeah it is. But I still notice others when my favourite is not with me.
Teirdalin · 31-35
Absolutely, when I love someone I only think of them
ElRengo · 70-79, M
I had no eyes for anyone else while with Her
bugeye · 26-30, F
attracted to one person? sure. but only that one person i highly doubt it. i'm sure my BF thinks a lot of people are attractive, i do too. it's fine to find others attractive as long as neither person gets jealous, controlling or cheats you're golden.
Ynotisay · M
Yes. Although that doesn't mean living in a bubble. It means prioritizing.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@rissa yes it is possible too have one true love a rare occurence though
PhoenixPhail · M
Absolutely!!! I would LOVE it.
Nah, especially not for dudes
@sexyjigsaw correction, I meant to say you can stay attracted for a long time but not looking at someone else is hard
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
No. The not looking at others got me
TinFoilHat · F
Yes 💖
subhubby · 56-60, M
@TinFoilHat yes you can. I love my wife and continue to be attracted and obsessed with pleasing her daily (after 30+ years).
BiasForAction · M
Impossible
Katie01 · F
Not a chance
BiasForAction · M
No
Magenta · F
Yes. The attraction may change, but still exists.
And of course we notice others, it's why we have eyes. But we can still be loyal.
And of course we notice others, it's why we have eyes. But we can still be loyal.
Kumar007 · 41-45, M
Little bit confused,so no
Primnproper · 56-60, F
Yes I believe you can.
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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Can you?
Morrowind · 26-30, M
Yes I did
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Yes.
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TioCarlos · 31-35, M
I can.
NoThanksLeon · M
I can.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
No.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
I think its possible and correct,but i think everyone looks at others and just thinks wrongly about them,in relation to their partner,but as long as all junk is kept locked away no harm.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Of course.
It is all about the soul.
It is all about the soul.
AnommonA86 · 36-40, F
Yes you can if you really try to
Nihiless ·
Hell no, however physical appearances are just that and nothing more.
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samanthaX · 41-45, T
I look but I remain loyal to the one.
samanthaX · 41-45, T
Yes you definitely can !!!