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Those in the healthiest of marriages understand that we belong with each other and not to each other. In that way, we can look and find other people attractive, as is natural unless you somehow turned your hormones off, but we don't act on those feelings because we belong with our husband. We can even admit we find others attractive and trust that the boundaries acceptable to both partners are never broken.