SinlessOnslaught · M
It's multifaceted and different for every person. Much of it has to do with hurt.
If I could distill the answer into one simple point, I would say learn to love oneself and others, and take care of both.
But it's not always that easy.
If I could distill the answer into one simple point, I would say learn to love oneself and others, and take care of both.
But it's not always that easy.
Punxi · F
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Punxi Hi
Docdon23 · M
there are support groups--AA, NA, ACOA and many more. Also, find a "safe" way to get the same pleasure--exercise, walk in nature, meditate, make love...play an instrument, listen to soothing music
SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
First of all the person has to want to quit. Then they need to ask themselves why they're doing what they do. What do they get out of it?
Most addictions are pure self-destruction wrapped up in the powerful illusion of some pleasure or benefit.
The only relatively simple way out involves a lot of examination and reflection on what the person is actually doing, why they do it, and if their life would be better if they stopped.
Most addictions are pure self-destruction wrapped up in the powerful illusion of some pleasure or benefit.
The only relatively simple way out involves a lot of examination and reflection on what the person is actually doing, why they do it, and if their life would be better if they stopped.
SomeMichGuy · M
@SomeIrishPerson For the many things involving a physical component of the addiction, it's a tad harder.
SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
@SomeMichGuy
That can be the case, I have experience of that too.
The main part of the struggle for me was always psychological though. The physical component is made a hundred times worse when it's accompanied by huge craving and suffering caused by the belief that you're making a huge sacrifice.
That can be the case, I have experience of that too.
The main part of the struggle for me was always psychological though. The physical component is made a hundred times worse when it's accompanied by huge craving and suffering caused by the belief that you're making a huge sacrifice.
SomeMichGuy · M
@SomeIrishPerson Interesting point and from a person who has walked through that torment!
Julien · 36-40, M
If they are trying to stop
They have already admitted to themselves that they have an addiction
And thats 50% of the job done .
They need a support group and close supervision. The best way is still rehab
They have already admitted to themselves that they have an addiction
And thats 50% of the job done .
They need a support group and close supervision. The best way is still rehab
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
I think it boils down to will power.
You have to want to quit.
Then you gotta make yourself quit.
Depending on the substance and length of time doing it there may be a need for other medication to keep from dying.
You have to want to quit.
Then you gotta make yourself quit.
Depending on the substance and length of time doing it there may be a need for other medication to keep from dying.
Younameit · F
Therapy maybe could help
Princess54 · 70-79, F
One day at a time!
SomeMichGuy · M
@Princess54 Did that TV show help you?
Princess54 · 70-79, F
@SomeMichGuy funny 😄
SomeMichGuy · M
@Princess54 If I got you to laugh, sometimes that and prayer are all one can do.
BuzzedLightyear · 61-69, M
Addiction is demonic. Requires spiritual delivery. Ask me how I know.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
There's no generic answer really
















