If abortion remains legal...
Should a man be able to choose if he WANTS to pay child support or not? HIS wallet HIS choice.
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BlueVeins · 22-25
Only if we have some kind of universal social support system that ensures that the children will be adequately cared for regardless of child support. To be frank, men kinda get hosed under the current system, but just getting rid of child support would increase child poverty and I absolutely cannot accept that.
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Trustyles · 31-35, M
@BalmyNites You can stop replying any time you wish.
BalmyNites · F
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Trustyles · 31-35, M
@BalmyNites Was that your last hurrah?
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl So you think abortion should be punished?
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@SW-User It is also HER kid.
@Trustyles No, but I also don't think that abortion should be used as a means to get back at the man as some women do, either. If you're big enough to be having consensual sex, then you're big enough to understand that you may create a life and should at least consider your options before you jump into bed with him/her.
Come on... most of this is common sense adult stuff. It's not that hard for either gender to avoid pregnancy if they desire to do so. They teach you about sex in most schools, so you know exactly how children are made and how to avoid it happening. They even tell you why it's a bad idea to keep your condoms in your wallet.
Come on... most of this is common sense adult stuff. It's not that hard for either gender to avoid pregnancy if they desire to do so. They teach you about sex in most schools, so you know exactly how children are made and how to avoid it happening. They even tell you why it's a bad idea to keep your condoms in your wallet.
@Trustyles Exactly... how does she get pregnant if you're using a condom and she is also using protection where possible???
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl Even then accidents happen.
@Trustyles "Accidents" are more likely to happen if you go stealthing and decide not to use any contraception at all.
If you're really that desperate to avoid children, keep it in your pants. I've been abstaining for six years so far... and, would you believe that I've never been pregnant once - I haven't even had as much as a pregnancy scare. Better still... I don't need to worry about any contraception screwing up my body's natural hormonal levels, either.
If you're really that desperate to avoid children, keep it in your pants. I've been abstaining for six years so far... and, would you believe that I've never been pregnant once - I haven't even had as much as a pregnancy scare. Better still... I don't need to worry about any contraception screwing up my body's natural hormonal levels, either.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
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Trustyles · 31-35, M
@MonaLisa86 How would you know that if you're not on the scene? they could be lying.
smiler2012 · 56-60
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@smiler2012 Why doesnt the mother have the moral obligation to not abort the child?
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Trustyles it is wrong to abort because your partner is a skinflint only reason abortion should be used for mmedical reason s if is endangering either the mother or child
CopperCicada · M
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@CopperCicada The thing is that Susan has a choice if she wants to support the child,or not. Steve will go to prison if he refuses to support the child, so he has no choice.
CopperCicada · M
@Trustyles OK. Make abortion illegal and then we can have more men responsible for child support,
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@CopperCicada The easiest route would be to just give men the choice as well. I am pro choice. Both parties should have a choice though.
@Trustyles If having "protected" sex is so wrong, then you pay the consequences should she get pregnant. It's simple logic. And once again, if you haven't any need for a child in your life, go get a vasectomy. Only would I allow a man in me(condom or not) is if we shared a deep emotional connection and loved each other. I'm not a hoochie, so forgive me since you're apparently not used to my type. With that being said, I hate condoms myself, but we have access to this valuable commodity of various birth control practices in case you weren't aware. You should know who you're screwing first and foremost. Start there.😉
@Trustyles You're welcome for the enlightenment. Now use it wisely please.😏
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Trustyles Don't make this about me.. it isn't about me, and I suspect you know that and maybe are trying to twist it to make it about whoever replies deliberately..
Fact is.. assuming sex IS a choice, and actually it isn't always for lots of women.. IF a man goes inside a woman and cums then HE is responsible too. He has a choice, and often both, in the heat of the moment get carried away and there's no condom, so both make that choice.. to proceed or not.. it's not 'more' the woman's fault. When two make a baby. both are responsible.
I hope you are satisfied with that answer. I think it explains pretty well. I tend not to keep revisiting old posts so I may not see any reply.
Fact is.. assuming sex IS a choice, and actually it isn't always for lots of women.. IF a man goes inside a woman and cums then HE is responsible too. He has a choice, and often both, in the heat of the moment get carried away and there's no condom, so both make that choice.. to proceed or not.. it's not 'more' the woman's fault. When two make a baby. both are responsible.
I hope you are satisfied with that answer. I think it explains pretty well. I tend not to keep revisiting old posts so I may not see any reply.
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@Adaydreambeliever Well in order to answer these questions honestly I make it about you. I fully agree with everything you said. They're both responsible and should have an equal choice.
graphite · 61-69, M
There's lots of situations where guys who aren't even the biological fathers get hit with child support. He's near enough to the situation where the government decrees the "best interests of the child" overrule any semblance of fairness to the man. Wife has a kid with somebody else? You're on the hook for support just the same. Find out years later the kid you thought was yours is not? Pay up just the same.
Trustyles · 31-35, M
CookieCrumbs · F
And what would be a good reason for choosing not to?
CookieCrumbs · F
Doomflower · 36-40, M
Oh wow you're so original no one has ever said anything like that before. Truly hilarious.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F