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If abortion remains legal...

Should a man be able to choose if he WANTS to pay child support or not? HIS wallet HIS choice.
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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Nope, his choice was when he unzipped his pants.. if they are in a relationship sure they get to discuss it but ultimately it's the woman's choice and if the baby is born sorry but he IS the father, like it or not, so pay up.. ideally step up, be a man and help raise it.
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@Adaydreambeliever So you would willingly let a man inside you without a condom even if YOU dont want to get pregnant?
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Trustyles Don't make this about me.. it isn't about me, and I suspect you know that and maybe are trying to twist it to make it about whoever replies deliberately..

Fact is.. assuming sex IS a choice, and actually it isn't always for lots of women.. IF a man goes inside a woman and cums then HE is responsible too. He has a choice, and often both, in the heat of the moment get carried away and there's no condom, so both make that choice.. to proceed or not.. it's not 'more' the woman's fault. When two make a baby. both are responsible.

I hope you are satisfied with that answer. I think it explains pretty well. I tend not to keep revisiting old posts so I may not see any reply.
Trustyles · 31-35, M
@Adaydreambeliever Well in order to answer these questions honestly I make it about you. I fully agree with everything you said. They're both responsible and should have an equal choice.