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Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
No, Your not obligated to help anyone.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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summersong · F
Nobody is entitled to that money but you.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
Its your money. And its not alot so be frugal
JupiterDreams · 31-35
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Never lend to relatives....... Always bad...
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@masterofyou Trueee
masterofyou · 70-79, M
@JupiterDreams Enjoy your trip, enjoy your life... It's your money you save or spend it the way you want too..
Keep your money......not your problem
JupiterDreams · 31-35
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Your money to do with as you like
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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SW-User
You aren’t obligated.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@SW-User 🌷
Laugh at them instead.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Havesomefun2 Noo, thank you for the advice 🌷
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
@JupiterDreams well iam old 💀☠️👴🧑‍🦽
Fairydust · F
No it’s yours 🙂
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Fairydust 🤗🌷
Manzi · 56-60, M
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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JupiterDreams · 31-35
JupiterDreams · 31-35
They need to find a way to pay their own way. You have saved for something very specific
@JupiterDreams all I will say is, if you ate staying with these people and not contributing to living costs then I can understand them wanting you to give them money. You are not obligated, they should not expect anything from you. I am just saying this because I am not aware of the circumstances and am not sure of the full story
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@InOtterWords I understand that :) I pay the phone bill every month, I buy the groceries and cook, I clean the house, I buy new stuff/necessities
@JupiterDreams and if the terms were clear they should not change.

It is really awkward when it comes to friends/family and money.

Just remind yourself of the goodvtjingscthey are doing when they start to overstep
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
No, you're not. It's your money. You made it. To build your life and your life is your own.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Unless they are in a life or death situation, I wouldn't feel pressured to give them money. You planned and set aside for something to move your life forward. If you put your life on hold for them now you won't be able to help them in the future when they get to the same place again. It's just delaying the inevitable
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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travelguy01 · 41-45, M
You are not obligated to give them anything.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
You are under no obligation to give your money away. I’ve experienced this several times. Others believing that I should be the fix to their problems. It’s not reasonable & I feel no guilt taking care of me. You use that money for what you want to they are not your responsibility.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@JupiterDreams my husband has dealt with this identical situation. ( expect our saved money was for a home) Parents are not owed our money for raising us. They make the choice to have us & then as children we are their responsibility. It’s not some down payment so the children give away what they earn later. My husband’s mother has used my husband for so many years there’s never an end to the requests or guilt trips. You have just one life. Live it to your own standards. Adventure is an important part to life. Don’t let anyone even family tell you they deserve your money or their need is greater than your desire for life. It’s untrue, unfair & inappropriate for them to try to convince you of that. Honestly it sounds like to me this trip/ move could be very healthy for you to also create some distance from that kind of environment. My husband still loves his mother of course. But some people really don’t add to our life & some even take away. My advice use your savings to go away. Start your next adventure. Who knows what you’ll do, who you might be etc You won’t ever regret living to the fullest. 🌻
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Thank you 🤗🌺
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@JupiterDreams its a guilt trip
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empanadas · 31-35, M
nope fuck them.. live your life
JupiterDreams · 31-35
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JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Spokeskitties75 You can fly me 😯
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
@JupiterDreams I just flew by NYC yesterday
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@Spokeskitties75 Awww so pretty 😯☺️
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JupiterDreams · 31-35
@MarmeeMarch Thanks, Marmee
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@MarmeeMarch 😥🌷

 
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