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Do you have a friend who drains you of energy?

Like I got this girl friend who is pre transition, she is buried deep to protect herself. And stuck in the weird place where "man mode" is her default. I listen and try to help her find herself or whatevs.
And it's lonely there 2, coz most peeps u know, aren't talking to the real you😭😭.

But this creates problems, she kinda gets envious coz Im livin her dream and I get dragged back to feels I dont wanna remember. Also english isn't her first language, so that makes it hard for me too, she can't find the phrasing or words. And I rite lik this 2 *laughs*, probs doesn't help.

Anyways the buried girl🥰 seems super nice so I keep at it❤.

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Iwillwait · M

Man mode? What is that? What's the Dream you're living out?

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Iwillwait · M

@Alison So, you're a born woman taking meds / or estrogen? Or a born Male taking HRT?

Alison · 18-21, F

@Iwillwait AMAB. But the lifestyle totes wrong for me.
Use Google, I'm sticking with TG language here, otherwise I gonna get dysphoria and that I walk away from.

Iwillwait · M

@Alison oh, ok. Thank you for taking the time to answer me.

Cinnaman

Good for you!! I think your energy is too powerful to be drained by her sadness. Hopefully you will increase hers. What is her first language btw? Just curious.

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Alison · 18-21, F

@Cinnaman French I think.

Cinnaman

@Alison mais tu dois apprendre le français! C'est parfait pour toi!

Alison · 18-21, F

@Cinnaman *throws arms in the air*

Mindful · 56-60, F

Seems super nice? Or is nice?

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Alison · 18-21, F

@Mindful I'm just talking yep🙂. My life reads like 12 years olds diary *laughs*.

Mindful · 56-60, F

In my life, those teen years were the best! Enjoy be glad *be happy*@Alison

Alison · 18-21, F

@Mindful *laughs*, damn crazy being lik old and then looking at youself and goin yep I'm actin lik a 12 year old. But yeah its a blast🙂.

CestManan · 46-50, F

When a transgender person says they are living as themself, it means they are living in their chosen gender role.

Now me, I am not living as myself. I am living as Dave Matthews.

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

You seem like a good friend

And yes, I’ve been on the “getting drained” end of a few friendships😬

Alison · 18-21, F

@JRVanguard That's life kinda, f4iends make it gr8, but yeah🤷‍♀️.

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

@Alison Absolutely
I wouldn’t trade them for the world😌

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

@Alison So what do you think of Tom Hardy & Would You Do Him

Alison · 18-21, F

@JohnOinger I do like that writer tho: And I am doin Tess, work in a dairy and all.

Cinnaman

@Alison you're a milkmaid? :D

Alison · 18-21, F

@Cinnaman Def. Had a crush on the boss 4 awhile 2, angel that he is.

Ozdharma · 61-69, M

Friends can do that but they are worth it

Alison · 18-21, F

@Ozdharma TBH we are texting gossip rn *laughs* .
Nat the girl who finds your closeted girl *laughs* .

Ozdharma · 61-69, M

@Alison that is cool it is good to do that with people you may not know but feel comfortable with

mysteryespresso ·

ask her to type in her language and you translate

Alison · 18-21, F

@mysteryespresso Mayb, I can hear her now tho🥰🙂, Took a year.

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

Every last one

Alison · 18-21, F

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout So u get your energy here? *laughs* .

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