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Yes, a couple of times. The first time, my first boyfriend said "Now don't make me feel bad," and then he started purposely acting kind of like a jerk, to try to make me stop liking him. And then, 17 years later, we reconnected for a little while, and he wanted me back, but I didn't have those same feelings anymore. I just wanted to be friends.
The other time, the guy really WAS a jerk. I think he was probably laughing at me, though I couldn't know for sure, as the whole thing happened online.
The other time, the guy really WAS a jerk. I think he was probably laughing at me, though I couldn't know for sure, as the whole thing happened online.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
No. I'm not one to force relationships. I move on if they don't want me
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Yes, we were married 20 years and she had terminal breast cancer. She left me to die on her own. I wanted to say goodbye and be with her at the end, but I only found out she was about to die from reading her last post on facebook from her hospital bed saying this is it.
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
@SW-User I am so sorry. It is very hard when you can't say goodbye.
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@SW-User Thank you! Yes you are right, nobody can take away those good memories... there were so many.
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@SweetMae Thank you too, yes i think not being able to say goodbye or find out why she wanted to leave me right at the end is what is the hardest.
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
I tried that a long time ago and I found that only pushed them further away
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@chuck7882 I’m sorry x I hope you meet someone who stays for a very long time x some people are only chapters in our life’s , the ones who stay are very rare and hard to find x
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
@SW-User looking back, I'm lucky things didn't work out with her. We were not a fit and neither one of us would have been happy
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@chuck7882 at least you discovered that for yourself x many loose diamonds in the search of stones
Genieinabottle · 51-55, M
Yes, she disappeared anyway. It took four years but she came back. After four years without her I was a broken man, she was repulsed by what I had become. I don't really know what she expected. Maybe I was supposed to thrive after my heart was ripped out. When she left me I would wake up in the middle of the night and weep and eat cookies. I turned fat, unstable and a drug user to kill the pain. No wonder she couldn't stand to look at me when she came back. I just don't know why she ever decided to come back after four years stay fucking gone.
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I’m so sorry but thank you for sharing that with me. I wish you happiness and I hope you find inner peace @Genieinabottle
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Yes! I begged somehow but now i don't beg... I just let them stay or go... Its all their choice.... But i will not let you go away 🤗
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
@SW-User x? What that x means tell me please 😇
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@AngelKrish kisses 😘
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
@SW-User 🥰 😘 kisses for you!
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Yes it was an obvious mistake
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What happened?@SW-User
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@SW-User I was emotionally dependent
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@SW-User abit like me then 🤗
Rutterman · 46-50, M
No. I'm not interested in trying to persuade someone to stay if they really want to go.
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
No but I’ve begged someone to leave me alone.
CrimsonDemon · 36-40, M
Yeah and It didn't work so I told her husband she was still married to... True story lol 😂
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😂 how did that go down ?@CrimsonDemon
CrimsonDemon · 36-40, M
@SW-User its a long story but I'm still waiting on my sapena paper to their divorce court date lol
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@CrimsonDemon oh ok x
thearhyss · 36-40, F
In a way... but he didn't get the message.
thearhyss · 36-40, F
"I will not use my...our child for you to make the choice to continue what we have" I told him.
He replied.. "I just don't know who to choose."
"There you go again... when you're with me you're saying you're leaving them. " the girl..- that girl ..
So I've decided to pack all my things ...went home to my hood. Didn't even think about looking back.
Funny enough I still have dreams of that day... dfferent scenario ... same ending.
He replied.. "I just don't know who to choose."
"There you go again... when you're with me you're saying you're leaving them. " the girl..- that girl ..
So I've decided to pack all my things ...went home to my hood. Didn't even think about looking back.
Funny enough I still have dreams of that day... dfferent scenario ... same ending.
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@thearhyss wow. Thank you for sharing that with me. I admire your inner strength x
thearhyss · 36-40, F
@SW-User but in that very moment.. I wanted to grab the knife and imagines killing both of them.
Those imaginings....
Those imaginings....
wackidywack · 22-25
Yup but they left, came back after a long while. We're good friends now
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Not directly. But when I think back, it was something of that sort.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Just once. It turned out to be a mistake.
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What happened?@SweetMae
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
No, not worth the effort if they want to go.
Yes. An ex.
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How did it go down ?@canusernamebemyusername
@SW-User Left anyway. Took me five years to get over though:/
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Yes when I was 16 and stupid and cried and begged them to stay..... Omg!!!!!! 😳 Telling them I would die without them!!
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@SW-User bad
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@SW-User you're still the same
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@MartinTheFirst I'm not that sensitive nor to that point of telling them I'd die. Or beg.
PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 26-30
Once.
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I have
KidAzazel · 26-30
I never could bring myself to do it. As painful as it's been for some people to leave my life, I'd feel even shittier if I had guilted them into staying in it
masterofyou · 70-79, M
I have been hurt, but I feel if it didn't work out after all the good things I have done, it just wasn't meant to be...
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@masterofyou what happened?
shaelan · 41-45, M
Yes.
Didn't work out so well.
Didn't work out so well.
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@shaelan what happened?
shaelan · 41-45, M
@SW-User she moved on.
shaelan · 41-45, M
@SW-User sorry, it's too convoluted to get into or summarize. Begging rarely works, and although she's not happy with her new situation, that's where she wants to stay. Hence, what's a guy to do?
No, i dont beg ...unless its food
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No but close once
Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M
Yes once
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Nope
Unequal2Trash · 36-40, F
No,
Steve42 · 56-60, M
Nope.
Bubbles · 36-40, F
Never
Lostpoet · M
Yes
DavidScott · 51-55, M
no
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
lol i thought you said pegged 😂
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@MartinTheFirst you have a dirty mind 😂
Unquestioned · 70-79, M
No. I don't beg.