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Is it that bad if I make a surprise for my lover then he got nothing for me for Valentine's?
22-25, F
36 replies
Feb 14, 2020
4meAndyou · F
If he is an awesome lover, keep him around for sex, but understand that's ALL he wants from you. And keep shopping around.
Psychosocial · 26-30
We are in the same boat here...
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@5257,Ic3Queen] what should we do?
Psychosocial · 26-30
[@1003198,DragunFruit] I dont know. I can think it through some more I guess.
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@5257,Ic3Queen] yes, maybe that's better
plungesponge · 36-40, M
Well it ain't good
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@20312,plungesponge] as a point of view of a guy, how?
plungesponge · 36-40, M
Guys are pretty bad with special dates, anniversaries e.t.c. But Valentine's Day is not exactly easily forgotten, and at the very least he could have bought a rose pretty much anywhere.

There's really only 2 ways to read this, he's pretty oblivious with low emotional intelligence, or it's a sign of general disinterest
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@20312,plungesponge] thank you for your honesty
quitwhendone · 46-50, M
You're just better than him.
quitwhendone · 46-50, M
[@1003198,DragunFruit] Sorry. What did you get him?
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@955094,quitwhendone] pizza, cake, gifts. It's okay it's your opinion 😁
quitwhendone · 46-50, M
[@1003198,DragunFruit] No, I meant I'm sorry he didn't get you anything or do anything for you.

Wow, that's really nice of you. If he doesn't appreciate you, dump him.
Iamyourdaddy · 22-25, M

But, unlucky you.
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@854020,Iamyourdaddy] indeed. Maybe
RubySoo · 51-55, F
Its not bad....but how do you feel about it?
I always used to try and do something special. Id do a special meal, candles and all, make cards, but i got a card and told....its 'comercial rip off day' and he never bought me anything. It became the norm and i stopped making the effort.
Its the other way arou d these days. He buys.....i dont.
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@329653,RubySoo] exactly.
Chevy454 · 41-45, M
Depends. Did you tell them that you didn’t want anything, but really expected something?
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@1004204,Chevy454] he told me he'll treat me dinner. But then, my parents already prepared foods. So he asked me if I want to eat tomorrow. I said, I might not make it because I'm having a project tomorrow. Then he said "Well, that's good" end of story.
Chevy454 · 41-45, M
Oh. Gotcha. He should have done something. [@1003198,DragunFruit]
DragunFruit · 22-25, F
[@1004204,Chevy454] but he didn't 🤔
Ellenback · 51-55, F
Hope he appreciated what you did. Did he show any remorse? Make up for it somehow?
Blondie04 · F
My hub bought me a coffee and said happy valentines day. I'm good.❤️
Montanaman · 61-69, M

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