Is it that bad if I make a surprise for my lover then he got nothing for me for Valentine's?

I think it's really rotten of him to tell you the truth. There's someone that claimed he loved me so much as a friend and went on and on about how much I do for him, and I've known him for 10 years, yet he couldn't remember my birthday at all, didn't wish me a happy birthday and he didn't even give me a lousy Christmas card. He is now history! Funny how he never forgets his other friends birthday and his aunts birthday. What a jerk! I sure don't miss him.