How Can a Black Woman Attract or Approach White Guys? I figure its all the same but it...

33person · 26-30, M

As a white guy who had dated two black women:

Yes, treat them as you would treat any guy. Sometimes white guys have a little subconscious racism in them. They may assume, for example, that a black woman is "harsher" than she really is, if that makes sense. Most likely, as soon as they hear your voice talking to them, this assumption will go away, so it's important to say something. But you would do that anyway. Just be prepared that he might seem awkward until you start talking. That's my only warning. Obviously, if he's still acting racist after you start talking, consider whether you really want to be dating him anyway.

As far as being attractive in general, relax and be your "weird" self. We all have our "weird" self, and we're all afraid that people will think we're too childlike or too silly if we let it shine, but don't be afraid, because your "weirdness" is actually your cuteness, when it comes to your personality. If you look happy and healthy and you act like your "weird" self, you will be super attractive. I promise.

Reject · 26-30, M

I think so. I treat white girls the same way I'd treat any other girl and I'm considered black. It's better to not worry about those things. If you treat them in any special way because of that, it might just end up making them feel weird.

76starships · 46-50, M

Be yourself. I’m not sure you have to do anything different. Guys like female attention. You may have to be the one who breaks the ice, though, depending on the guy.