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33person · 26-30, M
As a white guy who had dated two black women:
Yes, treat them as you would treat any guy. Sometimes white guys have a little subconscious racism in them. They may assume, for example, that a black woman is "harsher" than she really is, if that makes sense. Most likely, as soon as they hear your voice talking to them, this assumption will go away, so it's important to say something. But you would do that anyway. Just be prepared that he might seem awkward until you start talking. That's my only warning. Obviously, if he's still acting racist after you start talking, consider whether you really want to be dating him anyway.
As far as being attractive in general, relax and be your "weird" self. We all have our "weird" self, and we're all afraid that people will think we're too childlike or too silly if we let it shine, but don't be afraid, because your "weirdness" is actually your cuteness, when it comes to your personality. If you look happy and healthy and you act like your "weird" self, you will be super attractive. I promise.
Yes, treat them as you would treat any guy. Sometimes white guys have a little subconscious racism in them. They may assume, for example, that a black woman is "harsher" than she really is, if that makes sense. Most likely, as soon as they hear your voice talking to them, this assumption will go away, so it's important to say something. But you would do that anyway. Just be prepared that he might seem awkward until you start talking. That's my only warning. Obviously, if he's still acting racist after you start talking, consider whether you really want to be dating him anyway.
As far as being attractive in general, relax and be your "weird" self. We all have our "weird" self, and we're all afraid that people will think we're too childlike or too silly if we let it shine, but don't be afraid, because your "weirdness" is actually your cuteness, when it comes to your personality. If you look happy and healthy and you act like your "weird" self, you will be super attractive. I promise.
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MysteriousRose · 26-30, F