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What makes a woman instantly unattractive?

Or attractive
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1stexhub · 56-60, M
Lighting up a smoke and they screw up their face to inhale the first puff
Lilymoon · F
[@482930,1stexhub] haha yeah smoking is gross
Grateful4you · 61-69, M
[@482930,1stexhub] Hey Billy Bob, I thinks thats purdy especially with an ashtray overflowing.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
A nasty attitude paired with mean actions puts me off anyone.

I love when someone can enjoy themselves not taking everything too seriously.
Lilymoon · F
[@455213,Mrsbetweenfatandfit] yeah angry and mean makes anyone unattractive
[@455213,Mrsbetweenfatandfit] This!
Really high pitched laugh that wants to make you cringe.
Lilymoon · F
[@207746,CereBellum] my poor ears 😝
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Unattractive: makeup, tattoos, piercings, foul language.

Attractive: intelligence and a sense of humor.
Lilymoon · F
[@45528,hunkalove] I agree with the tattoos 🤷‍♀️
Lilymoon · F
[@45528,hunkalove] and too much makeup yuck
deadgerbil · 22-25, M
Smoking, etc, bad hygiene, bad personality
Lilymoon · F
[@761112,deadgerbil] yeah bad hygiene is up there lol
Crazywaterspring · 56-60, M
Smoking.
RogueLoner · M
I'm a sucker for a ponytail. Excessive tattoos send me running.
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 26-30, F
boys version of unattractive


attractive idk im not into girls
Rickichickie · 56-60, F
[@2620,XDHyperGirlXD1] A very good idea, to send one back! 😜
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 26-30, F
[@435937,Rickichickie] giggles 🤭
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
Lilymoon · F
[@763897,Harriet03] possible BC 🤭
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
[@1141547,Lily2] 🤞
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
Bad attitude. That trumps anything else.
Lilymoon · F
[@329500,uncalled4] yup for both sexes
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
[@1141547,Lily2] Indeed.
Shitty personality
Lilymoon · F
[@417364,Ozymandias] defo
Frenchmansfury · 26-30, M
Instantly unattractive? A lack of intelligence. Things like believing in healing crystals, fundamentalist religion, or having any kind of hateful prejudice. Its hard to be close with anyone, man or woman, who doesn't have a good fix on reality.

Instantly Attractive? Liking the same comedians as me. That tells me we're on the same wavelength.
Lilymoon · F
[@1198141,Frenchmansfury] Jim Carrey? 🤣
Frenchmansfury · 26-30, M
[@1141547,Lily2] definitely!😂
keeper · 41-45, M
Unattractive - high maintenance and insecurities
Lilymoon · F
[@773924,keeper] high maintenance blows
keeper · 41-45, M
[@1141547,Lily2] well...it can, if they stick around long enough.
SW User
Entitled personality. "Karen"-like behavior. Nothing puts me off more than that.
Lilymoon · F
[@1186483,SmarterChild] yup
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
Being drunk, angry hostile speech.
Lilymoon · F
[@601940,badminton] yes very drunk isn't good lolz
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
[@1141547,Lily2]
Magenta · F
Vulgarity.
Lilymoon · F
[@1173,Magenta] yup
FloorGenAdm · 46-50, M
She's instantly unattractive with her judge-mental, smarter-than-you, know-it-all, words of "wisdom".
Lilymoon · F
[@454355,FloorGenAdm] 😝
EuphoricTurtle · 36-40, M
Unattractive = being a shitty person with a shitty attitude.

Attractive = just a simple genuine smile.

Whenever I see women smile it's like seeing a puppy, I don't care if it's the ugliest dog in the world, my heart just melts.
Lilymoon · F
[@17323,EuphoricTurtle] Awww sweet 😁
Turkr · 36-40, M
ah so many
Lilymoon · F
[@1179458,Turkr] such as?
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Unattractive? A dick!
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
[@1139259,JohnnyNoir] Thailand Johnny? 🤔
Striker · M
Her mouth either way!
Lilymoon · F
[@1074415,Striker] so you're a lip guy 🤭
bugeye · 26-30, F
too much makeup. enough to highlight some features or compliment eye color are really pretty. but there are some who are literally caked in makeup and and look like they're melting if it's hot and sunny or just rainy outside.
Lilymoon · F
[@863013,bugeye] yeah...crazy 😝
LucyFuhr · 51-55, F
Mean girls are always ugly...regardless of how pretty they are
Lilymoon · F
[@8345,LucyFuhr] yeah that's for sure
Justmerae · 51-55, F
Unattractive: Mean, bad mouthing others


Attractive:
True kindness
Lilymoon · F
[@2144,Justmerae] Yes
Viper · 31-35, M
Sorry about this ladies, I don't mean to offend anyone but if your voice is deeper than Barry White's deep voice, um noooo... not the one for me.


I had a friend in college sorta disappear when he started dating this girl... I had seen her a ton from a distance, as usually they would split up, her off to class and he would come hang with us outside in between classes.

One day I saw them in a different place and me and him got to talking, she was behind me in the phone, and suddenly *extremely deep voice* ...

Me: *move out of the walk way, to let the guy coming up behind me pass*

Me: 😳 *realizing she was literally the only person within a block and that had to be her voice*

But yup, her voice is deeper than 99% of men... turns out she was a very heavy smoker which someone said that might be a factor. But seriously, if she could sing she could easily do the deepest voice parts of songs easily.


I never got to know her, as they were never around us much whole they dated... usually they were with her friends or getting alone time, until they broke up.
Lilymoon · F
[@800884,Viper] holy crap are you sure "she" wasn't a "he"? 😨
Viper · 31-35, M
[@1141547,Lily2] I mean I never got to see myself... but she looked female, pretty sure my friend was a straight male, they were sleeping together.

That's all I can really confirm, other than I later asked him if she was feeling alright and that was really her voice. He seemed to avoid the question but also confirmed it.

So, yeah, I think she just had a shockingly deep voice for some reason.
Lilymoon · F
[@800884,Viper] that's actually pretty funny 🤭
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
Drug use, smoking, to many piercings and tattoos, foul language, lack of manners.
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
Mean mean to someone else unnecessarily, and smoking. Those are the bad, in case it's unclear.

Good is a nice smile, nice laugh. And I'm a sucker for pretty eyes.

Hopefully I never meet a girl with really nice eyes who's mean to others. I'll be torn...
Lilymoon · F
[@570785,NotJamieM] yeah meanies aren't attractive at all haha 😖
SirBenedictTheSecond · 18-21, M
Being super boring and a prune makes one unattractive to me. We aren’t in 1700’s England. If she can’t have fun she’s not the one for me
Lilymoon · F
[@1182042,SirBenedictTheSecond] A prune huh 😆 ;)
SirBenedictTheSecond · 18-21, M
[@1141547,Lily2] They take my breath away.
In a word.....PERSONALITY
Lilymoon · F
[@539720,anythingoes477] Yeah that's a for sure...
Wayne91 · 26-30, M
I’m not sure about the looks but Bad attitude is 100% unattractive
Lilymoon · F
[@477999,Wayne91] yep
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Unattractive: a high sense if entitlement, lack of empathy and callousness (for example rudeness to waiters at restaurants).

Attractive: empathy, intelligence and sharing similar likes and dislikes.
Lilymoon · F
[@23671,basilfawlty89] great answer ty
Long fake nails wreck everything for me for some reason
Lilymoon · F
[@516216,DrawntoaDistance] high maintenance lol
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
[@516216,DrawntoaDistance] they look like weapons
AlienZipper · 61-69, M
Missing teeth....or untrimmed nose hair...
ZenPearl · F
[@327859,AlienZipper] yikes! What if she braids it? 😂🤣🤣
Lilymoon · F
[@327859,AlienZipper] ewwwww 😝
ZenPearl · F
[@1141547,Lilym] Wahahahahahaaa 🤣
Grateful4you · 61-69, M
Being loud, overbearing and obnoxious. Has nothing to do with physical attractiveness.
ZenPearl · F
[@881002,Grateful4you] 💯
Unattractive... bad attitude
Spokeskitties75 · 41-45, M
Unattractive... 🤔... when it’s revealed she has a ball sack! 😂
Lilymoon · F
[@362821,Spokeskitties75] she is a he 😰 lol
Dan88411 · 31-35, M
Unattractive:
Bad hygiene
Narcissistic attitude
Acts like a child

Attractive:
Caring
Selfless
Intelligent
Takes good care of herself
Lilymoon · F
[@940086,Dan88411] 👍
for me being a democrat, too much make up, smoking or drugs/alcoholic. bad personality. yells or screams a lot or just combative.
Lilymoon · F
[@539720,anythingoes477] Being a democrat as the reason for not being attractive/suitable is about as bad as if she doesn't like lima beans. 🤪
Rabbitsnail · 56-60, C
[@539720,anythingoes477] wow triggered much? 😂
[@539720,anythingoes477] lol triggered and totally mentally crazy.
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
Smoking, drugs, covered in tattoos, piercings, vulgarity, bad attitude, berating other people.
Thevy29 · 36-40, M
[@78387,Stereoguy] All of the above...
Lilymoon · F
[@78387,Stereoguy] yes and vice versa!
MilitantIrishman · 26-30, M
If she doesn't like lego
Lilymoon · F
[@8731,MilitantIrishman] fucking deal breaker. 😤
Adstar · 51-55, M
Unattractive. When she shows she is a feminist..

Attractive. When she shows she is loving and affectionate..
val70 · F
Bigotry.
Lilymoon · F
[@528751,val70] yep
In general people who are just uptight.
Lilymoon · F
[@232861,MrBlueSky] they need to chill 🤭
[@1141547,Lilym] And for attravtive a cute laugh instantly melts my heart 🥰
Lilymoon · F
[@232861,MrBlueSky] Awww 😁
Nimbus · M
6 inch beard and a mustache to match.
MilitantIrishman · 26-30, M
[@1313,Nimbus] You're too picky, Nimbus. That's just being silly
Lilymoon · F
[@1313,Nimbus] you can grow one and be twins... Adorbs!!! ❤️🤣
Thevy29 · 36-40, M
[@1141547,Lilym] I disagree. I think Greek Women are sexy.
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Lilymoon · F
[@482591,CopperCicada] agreed... doormats aren't very attractive.
Valdaine · M
Attitude
Lilymoon · F
[@573519,Valdaine] it's everything innit
Valdaine · M
[@1141547,Lilym] exactly
Wishingwellguy · 41-45, M
Bad odour, or beautiful natural sensual body scent
unnattractive - snotty attitude

attractive - approachable smile
RogueLoner · M
Infected belly button stud. Yeah, it happened.
Lilymoon · F
[@609293,RogueLoner] what was it?
RogueLoner · M
[@1141547,Lilym] A pearl, I think. It was tiny, but I don't like body piercings except ear lobe. I'm old school. It was 20 years ago.
Lilymoon · F
[@609293,RogueLoner] Yeah, ears only for me too. lol

 
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