I adress older persons as Ma'am and Sir

I was raised the same. I use Sir/Ma'am with all adults. It is a sign of respect. I use Sir with my dad too.

I use Sir a lot. Like, Thank you Sir.

Nothing wrong there hon.

Female fetishists? How absurd. I say sir/ma'am, all the time. It's called respect. and I will raise my children to do the same- not to anyone who is older, as age does not entitle you to respect in my books, but they will know to use it with their appointed authority figures, such as myself. But it really has nothing to do with anything sexual, and I do not consider myself a "fetishist" even though I do have "fetishes". I just don't choose to put that label on myself. Not because I have an issue with it, I just think it's an unattractive word, hah. But anyhow it has nothing to do with anything other than it is a sign of respect to authority, and I wish it was more common.

I have never heard that one, but people have said to me "Oh don't call me ma'am, I'm not an old lady" - Like, really? How silly people can be :') I am twenty-seven and people call me ma'am. Because I happen to be an alpha and authoritative naturally. But it has nothing to do with age. Similar experience to yours at least

And I think that’s wonderful. We need more people as admirable as you. The world would be a better place! 🙏

I also still have to do that, I have to adress girls and boys with Miss and Sir from the age of 14/15 and older married women with Ma'am.

Same. I've always called everyone sir or ma'am unless they are like my age cuz that's the way I was raised. 🤷‍♀️

Pure ridiculousness. I live where that's how children address all adults. I wasn't raised there so I don't do it but I find it to be very respectful. I don't require anyone to address me as such, but I don't discourage it.

yup. I was raised the same way..it freaks me out when an older person say..ohh don't call me ma'am or Sir, just Call me by my name. and I'm yeah ok..but end up Saying sir or Ma'am in the end.

I didn’t always say that but certainly at least “Mr.” and “Mrs./Ms” When I was a bartender it was always “sir” and “ma’am.”

I always had to use sir or ma'am as well.

Kinda the same at my house... and since when did common courtesy become a fetish ? 😉

Manners cost nothing.

You are doing good! I do same!

Respectful

Yes is not wrong

Nothing Wrong With Being Respectful I'd Say

As a retired senior USAF Officer, I've been used to being called Sir for many years so don't get upset if someone does use it as a form of respect. There is nothing wrong with being respectful to someone that is older than you but respect is also earned.

I think the way you address older people is the right way. I still do it when I see someone that I believe to be older than me. It's a sign of respect and I'm glad you do it :)

I have to address grownups that way too. If it’s a younger girl, I’m supposed to use “Miss”

Same 😄

it is how i was raised,

It’s only right n proper..Personally I addressed my parents that was till I was 21,and I was in the military 6 years at that stage,but hey I ain’t complaining

It frankly doesn't matter whether a female addresses me as "sir" or not, they can call me whatever they want as long as it's not bad.

you are supposed to. it is good for you. and I owe you a nice thank you

I’m from the south ma’am and sir is just good manners you were brought up right

I'm from the southern US, and we're taught to say Ma'am and Sir, too. It's just part of the culture.

I hope you are being a good girl today

I assume "my Daddy" means your actual father? I only ask only because some women seem to call many men Daddy, which seems odd to me. He does seem very strict with you.

Very respectful, indeed. 😊

I don't mind strangers calling me sir, but I think it's weird once I get to know them.

It's more education than anything else !

Its always good to be respectful. Nothing wrong with that

That's how everyone should be raised, but some parents just don't care. Some are even scared to raise their kids that way.

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Good old fashioned respect. Definitely missing today.

It’s good for us teens to respect our elders

You have been educated well.

well, that's what i appreciate about you

Good manners don't cost anything.

I guess it’s just a respect thing, I do it sometimes

There is nothing wrong with either.

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I did that when I was younger, but I don’t demand that. There are other ways to speak respectfully, and it goes both ways.

You are a well educated young lady 💝

I do that to many old or young

I would prefer you call me by my name.