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Might start my first job soon, ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ i'm not feeling well about it!

HumanEarth ยท 56-60, F
Wow at 22-25 age range your starting late on your working life.

My first job away from family I was 12/13 and that was mowing lawns and removing snow and delivering the Journal door to door.

Making 200 a week as a teenager was awesome
popmol ยท 22-25, M
HumanEarth ยท 56-60, F
I made about 5 grand a piece for each one. Wanna say EW now
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@HumanEarth you can earn a million for each assassination, you can earn billions breaking down the dearth and selling it to alien overlords.
don't care about the money if i don't like the method its made!
nonsensiclesnail ยท F
OMG its going to be epic!!
You will be great. You will do well.
nonsensiclesnail ยท F
@popmol itโ€™s okay. You donโ€™t need to know everything. You will be great and you will absolutely make mistakes. Most everyone does. Thatโ€™s normal.
Be nice to you.
PhoenixPhail ยท M
@popmol You'll learn as you go. You're not going to be expected to know everything when you start. You'll do fine.
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@PhoenixPhail its tough as my main fear in life is fear of failure! its what my anchor is to my life.
but i'll try thanks :)

@PhoenixPhail i hope i can learn fast enough!
smiler2012 ยท 56-60
[@pomol] why really can understand being the new boy you will be nervous and that is understandable . once you have been there a few weeks and got into the swing and know a few of your work mates a bit you will look back on this and think why did i worry and fret over it
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@smiler2012 i'll look back glad i'm not dead xD but sure
nedkelly ยท 61-69, M
@smiler2012 Scousers do not work
smiler2012 ยท 56-60
@nedkelly ๐Ÿ˜†that is only a nasty rumour you and nimby like too spread about ned lol
ElRengo ยท 70-79, M
First jobs are frequently a source of stress but mainly an important step to growing.
Usually mean to enter a new stage in life.
As adaptation to such changes have some cost at expenses of what we were previusly adapted to / confortable with and cos as in the start of new activities we feel as being "less" than we used to, it may make you somehow reluctant.
But you may and Iยดm sure you will, make of it a good rewarding advance.
Head up and do it our friend!
ElRengo ยท 70-79, M
@popmol
It happens.......
The start may include some frustations but you can make it better, no doubt.
Even the best prepaired will make some mistakes during the first times.
And you will learn the specifics by doing. I promisse you so.
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@ElRengo i hope so!
ElRengo ยท 70-79, M
@popmol ๐Ÿ‘
thinkingoutloud ยท F
I want to congratulate you but first yell me why you're not feeling well about it?
thinkingoutloud ยท F
@popmol People can make mistakes and come out from it. Why wouldn't you? But I don't know every detail, so you have to look at it objectively and make that decision. If it is a good chance, you could be missing a great opportunity.
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@metaldog i don't think these people want to wait for my weekly class to finish in june.
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@thinkingoutloud its not bad.
Raaii ยท 22-25, F
[c=800000] good luck bro[/c]
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@Raaii thank you!
Havesomefun2 ยท 56-60, M
What is it ?
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@Havesomefun2 thats the plan but theres only so much i can learn
Havesomefun2 ยท 56-60, M
When a customer asks you a question about any thing just say let me check on that then go into the office @popmol
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@Havesomefun2 well i'll probably not have to day one luckily.
Musicman ยท 61-69, M
What will you be doing and what is causing this stress?
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@Musicman fear of failure that cause most problems in my life.
Musicman ยท 61-69, M
@popmol I can definitely understand that. โ˜น๏ธ
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@Musicman i'm sorry to hear ๐Ÿ˜ข but yeah if only i had more knowledge
MrsMONAKanful ยท 36-40, F
Iโ€™m so glad I donโ€™t have to work anymore
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@MrsMONAKanful how come? why don't you need to work anymore?
MrsMONAKanful ยท 36-40, F
@popmol because Iโ€™m
On disability pension
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@MrsMONAKanful ooh that's handy!
ExperienceDLT ยท M
Dont stress it just earn that money
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@ExperienceDLT if i'm good enough to keep!
ExperienceDLT ยท M
@popmol just do the best you can the rest will take care of itself
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@ExperienceDLT i hope so!
Lilymoon ยท F
Walk around like you own the place
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@Lilymoon terrifying!
CrazyMusicLover ยท 31-35
That's completely understandable.
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@CrazyMusicLover thanks! i hope i'll be able to cope.
iamnikki ยท 31-35, F
First job at 22-25?
Lucky
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@iamnikki only temporary if they like me and its 24 almost 25 :p
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popmol ยท 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie well mainly my issue is that i don't mind the failure but its the lack of knowledge i have. its a job where my knowledge is based on highschool more than 7 years ago and first year of college which is 5 years ago.

well its a small group of 6 people so unlikely to get such people targeting me. also i'm afraid of fucking up but harassment ooh i'll lose my anxiety quickly as they will their teeth ๐Ÿ˜…

thank you โ˜บ๏ธ

i'm just sad that either i have to change my cooking class to the evening or cancel it all together.
OogieBoogie ยท F
@popmol pfft ...old knowledge isnt as important as you think it is .
The world changes so fast, it's common knowledge that even university degrees lose their importance after ten years .

With nearly every job Ive had , it's been the new knowledge I learned that helped me most .
I asked others, googled heaps of stuff ....and still do.
Cooking classes will always be there. Even if you have to cancel for a while....you can always find another one later.

I'm sure after your first week you'll feel so much better, and most of your fear will be gone.
You have an enquiring mind, om sure you'll be able to learn quickly and find the knowledge you need.โ˜บ๏ธ
popmol ยท 22-25, M
@OogieBoogie well yeah but knowing that C becomes D and a couple years later D becomes E is easier if you knew A and B.
if you knwo you got some about A before but thats it and now we are 10 years later and my mind does this ๐Ÿซฅ

well i'm planning to research a bunch.

well its already paid and i find it a waste, i could place it in the evening maybe? but not sure.
although if i'm in the same group as last time, i'm in a class with someone i knew from previous group but we weren't in the smaller groups together. i was stirring pudding she didn't like it and just took it out of my hand saying "if i see it done wrong, i must do it myself" and i'm like this is a god damn cooking class! so if that would going on i don't mind dropping it that much!
sad for the other people i liked though.

i'm afraid of my brain, its not the same after al the medication and the depression! feels like i can't soak up anything it sticks like a day then its poof gone! ๐Ÿ˜ต

i'll try though!
thank you so much! โ˜บ๏ธ

 
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