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What can be done to protect children from school shootings immediately?

Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
It’s crazy down there, I don’t know how parents do it. 😞
One thing for sure bullying actually has to become zero tolerance for real not just a half assed slogan.
I’ll get a lot of flack, but stricter gun laws, they must pass a mental health check, wait times on purchasing guns. (Ya I know they can be bought illegally too).
I hate to say it but, all outer doors to schools be locked when students are in class.
Or Homeschool.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Jeephikelove I agree with all of that!

Mental health is an absolute crisis in America

So is bullying, and it gets looked past way, way, way too often. It can have such huge negative effects on children (obviously) and it's far too often not punished in any way at all. Such a sad thing.
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GlitterEater · 36-40, F
Nothing to stop them immediately. The US is absolutely saturated with guns and will be accessible for a very long time regardless of whatever laws are made.
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
@GlitterEater people don't seem to have a problem with armed guards everywhere when they're protecting their money (like banks); why would they be concerned about armed guards protecting their kids?

Is their money more valuable than their own children?

sounds like a society problem, not a gun problem...
joe438 · 61-69, M
@GlitterEater Guards at the front door, other doors locked from outside access, and if it's crime-riddled area like Chicago, metal detectors at the entrance. If would-be shooters don't know where the armed good guys are, most of them won't plan on shooting. If there's only one entrance and they can't just walk in with a gun, most won't try.
GlitterEater · 36-40, F
@wildbill83

1. Lots of people don't want armed guards around them when they go in a bank
2. Children don't spend 7-8 hours a day in a bank
3. I never said it was a gun problem, you just made that up. I like guns.
Adrift · 61-69, F
We need to ask ourselves what was different back when we didn’t have school shootings?
We still had guns and most people didn’t even lock them up.
We had bullies in school too.
So what is different now than it was back then?
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
@Adrift I've discovered that democrats get ill when you use that deductive reasoning...

kids used to have two (present) parents, a mother and a father; God was still in school; kids recited pledge of allegiance every morning; hunting clubs/gun safety was still a high school course; society didn't hand out participation trophies nor reward cheaters; being a delinquent meant a leather belt or hickory switch; bullies got a busted nose instead of a counselor and a slap on the wrist; etc.

that's what changed
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@Adrift We also had more stable communities where neighbors knew one another and schools were better integrated into our communities. Schools were much smaller, neighborhood schools where most kids walked to school. Teachers and parents knew one another and kids had fewer opportunities to slip under the radar. Most households, then, were 2+ adult households where there was almost always one or more adult at home.

Today’s America is very different from that. Very different.

Anyone remember when there was once a legal definition to community standard? Is there such a thing today?
@Adrift we had God in our schools
bookerdana · M
We don't do gun control,even of assault weapons..and there are too many guns out there already to stop it

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MasterLee · 56-60, M
@bookerdana not sure I agree with your analysis
bookerdana · M
@MasterLee We have more guns per capita than any other nation on Earth by far..and more gun violence
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Get rid of the NRA for starters
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I don't think that there's an immediate fix or a single approach. I would suggest a multi aspect approach and it might take many years to see the full effect. I'll float some ideas:

More immediately, schools could become more secure where possible. Gates to prevent free access, metal detector arches to pass through, armed security at the gates.

Gun licensing set up similar to car licensing in terms of mandatory safety training and assessment before license granted.

No licenses for under 21's and that means it's illegal to own or use a gun under 21 except on the premises of licensed shooting ranges, using weapons owned by the range, where the age limit could be 16 or 18.

If anyone under 21 gains unlawful access to their parent's gun through negligence then it's a mandatory 5yr sentence for the parent and if the gun is used to harm others then it's a mandatory life sentence for the parent.

Medical professionals to be able to see patient gun ownership so that any mental health conditions can be red flagged to the licensing board and/or the police as a potential risk of harm.

Any incidences of violation of the terms of the gun license, including safe and appropriate storage, to result in temporary and/or permanent removal of both license and guns. Serious violations to also result in criminal negligence charges.

I think that freedom comes with responsibility.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@FishBotDimwit yes these are really strong ideas!!! Involving medical professionals is one I don't think I've ever come across or had myself. Interesting. Too bad they are stretched so thin already. That said, mental health is a crisis itself, and the field should be expanding and more people should be training for this so why not include weapons safety health professionals. Probably would stand in the way of their gun toting uniformed professionals 🙄 aka cops because half of them shouldn't be allowed the power they have.

The immediate is what really stands out to me in this entire situation in America right now because the rest gets so complicated with the impossibility of removing weapons.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Our kids started their school experiences in great Montessori programs and that, IMHO, was one of the smartest decisions of our lifetime. A big part of the Montessori process is learning such things as cooperation, helpfulness, community, empathy, respect, and the belief that every child is unique and valued.

For the life of me, Ive never understood public educations resistance to the Montessori methods. The assumption that life skills are learned at home is flawed. Kids at home are usually surrounded by adults with authority and not by other children, so when they show up at school at a young age they don’t always know how to behave when around a dozen other children.

Is there a connection between shrinking family sizes and school shootings? Look at who are the children doing the shooting. They didn’t as young children learn to merge with other children and become members of a children community, nor did the children communities learn to embrace them and make them feel like they belonged. And look at what Maria Montessori accomplished and with what children she achieved it with. Street children. Kids predisposed to becoming gang members, thieves and resentful killers.
JD Vance, in his bullet proof box with his armed guards around him yesterday, was telling Americans that school shootings are just a fact of life. SAD!!
"We don’t have to like the reality that we live in, but it is the reality we live in. We’ve got to deal with it."
— JD Vance, Sept 5, Biltmore Resort, Phoenix AZ


Yes, dozens of your children will be needlessly killed in school this year, but that's sacrifice the GQP is willing to make to keep the support of the gun lobby.

What can be done? Start by holding the GQP and the gun lobby accountable!!
joe438 · 61-69, M
@ElwoodBlues I think he was saying that we have to step up and address it, not just resign ourselves to having dead kids. But you knew that already - you just want Vance to look bad.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
It’s almost like a trend now.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@Jenny1234 used to distract us from what is happening
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@MasterLee and what would that be? 😂
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@Notsimilarreally pay attention to congressional hearings
Dealing with the craziness of US gun laws for a start.

BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
I am a gun advocate. That being said there has to be common sense regulations. There is no reason the kid should have gotten a rifle at 14 especially after concerns about mass shootings. I own weapons. My kids do not have access. I would never buy my kid a weapon like that. I would have it secured. This was preventable. Again I am pro gun. But there is many things that can be done to keep them safe
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@BearDownChicago unfortunately there will always be a shortage of common sense in this world.
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
@Notsimilarreally that is so true unfortunately
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
The problem isn't unsecured guns in the household; was never a problem before school shootings (back when everyone had more guns and trigger locks didn't exist...)

The problem is that society teaches people to fear guns instead of respect them
HannahSky · F
Immediately there can only be more safety measures in the schools. Make it similar to going into a stadium. That's really not a fix though.
HannahSky · F
@Heartlander both issues need to be addressed.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@HannahSky

Whether it’s giving the car keys car keys or a rifle to a reckless and threatening son, the parents have a responsibility and should suffer consequences if the rifle or car is used to murder or harm another.
HannahSky · F
@Heartlander I don't think it's that simple in regards to parents being responsible for everything but it does seem like if there's a known problem, steps need to be taken to help people, including the parents, before it gets to the point where someone is at the point of endangering others. It's not always easy to catch all of it. It's usually at the point of a crisis, rather than at the prevention level. We need more preventative measures. Like healthcare, get your annual checkups and prevention. Don't wait til you need to go to the emergency room. It might be too late.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Immediately? Provide airport type security for schools.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@swirlie It’s fundamentally a society issue. Until America finds a way to care for and protect children and from themselves there are few options beyond military type security measures.

It may take a village to raise a child, so how do we do that when our villages are being dismantled? How do we do that with children left to raise themselves?
swirlie · 31-35, F
@Heartlander
It's fundamentally a gun issue, not a society issue. No guns, no issues. It isn't rocket science, Heartlander.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@swirlie Disarming American citizens would simply empower our criminal population. Our cities with the strongest gun laws have the highest levels of gun related crime.
Nobody really wants to get to the root cause. Prior to Columbine, School shootings were extremely rare. So what really changed? Yeah...social media, and out general values have shifted. But there is more to this story that's much darker. Until we are willing to dig deep and shake up gov't, the only answer is additional armed security at schools.
@Spoiledbrat this didn't happen much prior to 1999. Americans owned 200 million guns then. Root cause is a different issue.
@BizSuitStacy Yes but parents STILL need to keep their guns away from their children. Times have changed and we have to change with it. Kids are still growing.
@Spoiledbrat I agree that parents absolutely need to store their firearms safely. I'm saying that safe gun storage isn't the issue.

There's basically two kinds of school shootings. More common are the gang related shootings that take place on or near school campus. And gang members don't get their guns legally.

Then there is the crazed lunatic, who shoots a bunch of kids because they are angry. Why is that happening?
Ontheroad · M
Immediately? Cancel schools or turn them into high-security prisons for the students.

There are way too many firearms out there and way too many mental health issues being ignored. Not only ignored, but made worse by neglectful and/or abusive parents, society, and the "gun culture" in our nation.

There is no simple solution, the problem is multifaceted and I can't see our leaders ever coming to grips with and dealing with the real root problems.
Adrift · 61-69, F
@Johnson212 My niece is a teacher and we were discussing the some of the designs of the new school buildings being a death trap.
Only one way out through a hallway.
The older designs in some of the buildings had several doors leading out of the classrooms.
There was the main entry door from the hallway but also doors that connected to other classrooms.
Several ways to escape the classroom in case of an emergency.
When I was growing up the outside doors to the classrooms were always locked during class.
You had to knock to get in if you were late.
Johnson212 · 61-69, M
@Adrift Yes the key there is it is only one way in through a hallway but not one way out if there was a fire or other emergency.
Adrift · 61-69, F
@Johnson212 I asked about fire. She said they have fire procedures down pretty well.
There is only one door to the classrooms and that is through the main hallways, with exit doors leading outside the buildings.
The hallways would be the main choke points.
Lostpoet · M
Security gaurds with weapons
Johnson212 · 61-69, M
Instead of clammoring for more gun laws they should enact physical and opperational security in all schools. Something we have needed for a long time. How a 14 year old is able to bring a rifle into school is beyond me. A rifle is just not that hard to detect.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
School or government should take strict action against shooter!
Fear is important to implement law for safety of civilians and kids!
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
hire private security to stand guard at every school.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@TheRascallyOne
That was already tried and it doesn't work.
HannahSky · F
@TheRascallyOne like the bunny squad? 🐰
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
How about metal detectors at all the doors? But the schools don't want to spend the money!
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Send them to a private school. America has many great private schools for kids.
Check bags every morning upon entrance.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Not sure but it scares me.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Arm teachers and administrators
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@Notsimilarreally like what?
Adrift · 61-69, F
@MasterLee
Oh the possibilities are endless use your imagination.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@Adrift it would end the lefts ability to distract the public for one
swirlie · 31-35, F
Vote for Kamala Harris.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@Johnson212
She wasn't in charge of the problems at the border. Joe Biden was and still is in charge of that problem. Were you forgetting who your President is?
Johnson212 · 61-69, M
@swirlie When the Biden Harris team took charge in 2020 she was tasked to deal with the root causes of migration from Central America as illegal border crossings were rising in 2021. She totally failed to resolve the self-inflicted crisis at America’s borders. Further, she has a prior track record of opposition to border security and interior enforcement and this helps explain her failure. To think people want a failure for a President.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@Johnson212
Regardless of who was tasked to do what, it is still Joe Biden who's in charge of the border issue, not Harris. She didn't fail at doing anything. The border problem is one that was inherited by the Biden Administration from Trump after Trump dropped the ball on immigration. The border problem did not begin with Biden nor will it end with Biden. If you want to see another failed President, vote for Trump and see how far that gets you in your delusion of reality.
swirlie · 31-35, F
Home schooling.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Heartlander 50 to 1 almost seems pointless. Just a recipe for disaster.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@Notsimilarreally Yes pointless. Beyond 20 kids in most classes with 10, 11, 12 ... year olds it becomes a drill sergeant exercise. Also the class layout. Sit students in columns and rows and the students are interacting with one another. Put them in a semi-circle and they are all face to face with the instructor.
swirlie · 31-35, F
@Heartlander

Yes, I agree with everything you've written here and thank you for responding to my post.

You have probably always wondered why I am so socially inclusive, well-behaved and come across with such an intelligent outlook toward most things that are discussed here on SW, right?

Well, I've been hiding it from you up until now, but I really think it's time to let the cat out of the bag. 🐱

I went to private school, K-13. Why 13 instead of 12 you ask? Because in the Canadian school system, grade 13 is optional which is called "University entrance". Grade 13 is the equivalent to the 1st year of university for a Bachelor of Arts Degree for example and the likelihood of being accepted by a Canadian university post high school is almost guaranteed for those who accept that grade 13 option, versus those who graduate from the standard pubic high school program which ends at grade 12.

The only subject my sisters and I were home-schooled for was sex education. This is because like the American sex ed curriculum, the Canadian sex ed curriculum is abysmal at best. Many reasons for this, the most glaringly obvious one being the foundational bias of British Colonial roots still firmly engrained within both countries which dramatically affects our society's social awareness of sex which then enshrines our future attitudes about sex.

My parents immigrated to Canada as newly-weds of pure Scandinavian stock, one from Norway, the other from Sweden. In Scandinavian countries, sex ed begins in grade 1, not in the second year of high school as is otherwise done in North America. Sex ed for me and my two sisters ran for a full 13 years in our home, which was conducted like clockwork every evening from 8 to 9pm for those 13 years I speak of. We began with how bees pollinate flowers and we ended with genetic outcomes from interracial intercourse, all of which was taught the same kitchen table for all those years.

How was this done? My mom taught my sisters and I from her own high school-issued 'sex manual' which she kept tucked away in storage until she had a family of her own. As each of my sisters and I turned 11 while in grade 6 of private school while coincidentally starting puberty at that same age for each of us, my mom's sex manual would come out onto the kitchen table and she taught my sisters and I everything she too was taught from that same manual in Scandinavia.

Private school was great for all the reasons you've outlined and I highly recommend it to those who can afford it, but it ain't cheap. But public education ain't cheep either because what you end up with at the end of the day is poorly educated high school graduates.

K-12/13 is either paid up front in the form of private school funding and paid for by the parents, or it's paid for the rest of that child's life because of what they did NOT learn when they were otherwise enrolled in the public school system, particularly when it comes to sex education.
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