What do you do when you get so mad but you can’t show it to the person you’re angry with?

@iQuit I’m not in good speaking terms with this person, I stay silent and distant as possible and I’m afraid open communication might just turn into another painful argument. I only have this patience to get by with being civil. But her passive aggressive ways are toxic but she is not smart, she admits it and it is evident in her academic records, so I can settle with the thought that she does not mean what she says or shows. Now I’m a calmer thanks.

@bijouxbroussard I hope to learn that skill

@NotJamieM That’s a healthy way of managing it

@TessDun it's the best way for me. If I react verbally, I might take it too far, so I just get it out. And my one time of taking a swing at a wall... I do not recommend, lol.

🔨 is better than punching 👍@NotJamieM

🦾@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout

@Elevatorpitches Yes, looking forward to being in a meditative state after this going-crazy phase

@TessDun wishing u much compassion😉💕

@4meAndyou It’s hard to pretend we are okay when we are not. When they were being rude your reaction was normal. . Also, it’s their job to fix computer-related issues they should have handled it professionally.

@TessDun It made me feel much better, later, when I heard that the IT girl had been reprimanded.

@rockstar That will make me look like a psychopath but still so hard to fake a smile even in this way

@TessDun Is this someone you have to work with?

@Fluffybull No, but she is a family now, still I have a choice not to see her as we live apart, only on special occasions

@TessDun Oh, just avoid her then!

@Wayne91 What about those harsh words you wish you could say

@TessDun That would be a bad choice. When I’m angry I don’t think very well and usually go out of control. And that doesn’t end very well. So I prefer silence. Once I’m calmed down I may get my sweet revenge if I feel I wanted it.

@Wayne91 Agree, it doesn’t end well :(

@ChiefJustWalks I get that passive aggressive energy from her. Yes I’d probably do that too, level 2

@SW-User Traffic update says it’s congested.

@TessDun Thats what motorbikes are for

@SW-User relaxing

@Mashaalone Hmmm 🤔

@mondayschild2 it’s difficult sometimes

@TessDun Yes it is otherwise for me it becomes rage.

@ilixolia I feel like stabbing the paper with the pen while writing it down, but thanks yes it might help

@AngelKrish She is not worth the hangover 🤕

@TessDun because my anger gonna hurt her ...that anger gonna hurt me later ...
I don't wanna hurt her even with my anger..