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SatinSecrets · 31-35, M
I mostly judge others for my own entertainment. They'll never know I think they look like fools 😎

bowman81 · M
I judge people and situations all the time. Just like you will make a judgement about me based on what I am writing. It is a good thing people. We evaluate and make decisions, hopefully good ones, about who we want to see, and associate with, who can be helpful, who is benign, and who might pose a danger to us.
4meAndyou · F
@bowman81 I wish I was a better judge of character.
bowman81 · M
@4meAndyou I think we all do, we aren't always successful. The judging is an ongoing process, once we know we made a mistake we still have the option of correcting it.
4meAndyou · F
Usually about five minutes after they start talking.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou Especially online....XD
ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
We all judge!
Judgement is the ability to reach an intelligent conclusion.
Opposite...indecisiveness.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@ShadowWorker Or the worst XD
ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
@Rilyn yes indeed. But it doesn't need to be contagious!
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@ShadowWorker I'm like the plague, once it starts it won't end that fast
Fantabulous · 46-50, F
When they wear crocs 😑
carolinehugz · 46-50, F
@Fantabulous I did go through a crocs wearing phase but they werent the really ugly ones though.🙄
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@carolinehugz The ones I once wore blistered my feet xD
Fantabulous · 46-50, F
@carolinehugz hmm I am glad you have left this phase...now we just need to clear up that they are ALL ugly ones 😅🤣
carolinehugz · 46-50, F
All the time and who doesn't? but I don't say anything of course.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@carolinehugz I sometimes just listen then totally cut you out of my existence XD
carolinehugz · 46-50, F
@Rilyn ha totally brutal 😏
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@carolinehugz Brutal is my speciality
Adstar · 56-60, M
Everyone judges / makes an assessment of people when they first meet them.. It's what humans do..
@Adstar You're not wrong, I'm just saying I don't think you're on the same page as her.
Adstar · 56-60, M
@SinlessOnslaught Well.. There are two closely related but different types of Judging.. In a western court system with a judge and a jury the two types of judgement are carried out.. The Judge does not actually assess / judge the accused It is the Jury's task to judge if the accused is innocent or guilty of the crime.. And they are the ones who pronounce the accused Inocent or guilty..

So why do we call the Judge presiding over the case a Judge? Why because he is responsible for the second type of Judgment, that being the sentence/ punishment that will be imposed on the accused if the Jury declares the accused guilty.. So there are two judgements..

Assesment/ innocent or guilty

And

Punishment / prison sentence or fine or some other penalty..
@Adstar Okay
SW-User
Well... it's a daily thing whether we think so or not.
We judge based on many things.
Kind, mean, good, bad, sweet, sour, rude, selfish, awesome, etc...
Judging isn't always in a good way or bad way. It can be either.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User I'm arrogant around the arrogant that's sure.
I do it frequently (quietly), and my initial judgement is usually wrong. I think it's completely natural for people to form judgements on the few details we're first presented with.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@HUNT5M4N I try to negotiate if I know I can't trust that person internally usually. I'm willing to kick out anyone that's not reliable though. I care less these days.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Immediately.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Rilyn kinda. I like to know what I’m dealing with 😉
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Keepitsimple Yea, I've taken more than enough than I can handle.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I think it’s more about knowing what to say and share with people.@Rilyn
SW-User
Judge not lest ye be judged … I always say 😊
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User I'm talking about you and your evasion not the "millions and trillions of the past or future XD
SW-User
How am I evading ? I respect all religions … idiot @Rilyn
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Ou....you're crossing a line here.
acupaday · 46-50, F
I’m too distracted and off in my own little world to judge people often. There’s also the bubble I put up around myself at times that literally makes people invisible to me. Self-preservation thing. I probably do it most while driving though. There’s a lot of people I’ll say c-u-next-Tuesday to due to bonehead moves.
All the time, both in negative and positive light, basically just having an opinion
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Lackwittyname Don't you get tired doing it?
@Rilyn Well not as a conscious thing where I am judging them, more just as an opinion that is formed naturally, without dwelling on things, but just how things align with how I live life.
It’s not right but I judge when they judge me.
From dawn to slightly after dusk
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@questionWeaver Keep it up XD
Lumberjack70 · 56-60, M
When I see them being inconsiderate or mean.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Lumberjack70 but but...I like being mean *pouts*
When I sense wilful ignorance, wilful stupidity or when I have to call out on bullshit.
@BalladOfADeadSoulja Yeah I agree with you.
@SinlessOnslaught I remember talking to you about something else but I got you mixed up with another SWeep here. But I’ll send you a DM for privacy reasons.
@BalladOfADeadSoulja Okay go for it
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
My philosophy has always been live your life and do good and don't harm others. This pandemic has brought out so much hate and selfishness I find I judge a lot now. Its sad
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@MrGoodbar Yes, the pandemic has really brought the madness out of everyone believe me.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
when they walk through the door
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Pretzel The next time I make sure they hit straight into it XD
Pretzel · 70-79, M
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Pretzel Messed up XD
assemblingaknob · 31-35, F
When they've judged me.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
You don't judge others. That's the one thing that gets on my nerves .
Who am I to judge ?
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@riseofthemachine Great, because my inner self is a ghost of it's former self!
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@Rilyn is the ghost of your former self afraid ? I do meditation at being honest all the fear from my childhood repeats itself . I got through my childhood and trauma from it . I had a lot of acceptance around it until a situation in work came back up 11 years ago around bullying and I went out with a hurly and I'm sorry to god that I didn't smack it off him .
He was trying degrade me cause he was jealous of me and that I wouldn't mix in with the workers . I'm not anti social but I'm a bit of a loner . A hurly is a stick by the way . I had the hurly hidden behind the wall when I went out to him cause I ended getting a nervous breakdown from him .
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@riseofthemachine I don't take a lot of my past into account except for a recent event that has dragged me down
Every waking hour. Judging is built into us and helps us discern between everyday decisions and people. I however, am not here prancing around with a giddy Karen radar admonishing everyone and everything for breathing.
Jlhzfromep · M
At first sight but I try to keep an open mind until an interaction or two. My first impression has been wrong a couple times.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Jlhzfromep I rely on my first impressions and my last XD
Dusty101 · F
When they are hypocrites..
They don't like how you behave, but will behave the same way!
I get my judgy shiny boots on! 👢👢
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Dusty101 Dude doesn't like my behaviour and lowers his ego by behaving a lot worse than me and actually pronouncing it xD
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@Dusty101 nice boots! 👢
Dusty101 · F
@Ambroseguy80 mah judgaaaaay bootsaaays! 😂
Hmmmm...

Good question. I need more time to answer this well.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy take all the time you need...
SW-User
When they’ve judged me
SW-User
@Rilyn relatable for me sometimes
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User I'll find ALL your flaws and attack you with them until you're mentally exhausted, enraged and can't do crap about it.
SW-User
@Rilyn 😕
SW-User
I try not to ..I myself am far from perfect
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User It's not a perfectionist thing
SW-User
@Rilyn I realise that ..it's just something I say
EndlessHorizon · 46-50, M
After all closing statements have been given.
Only when I'm being judgemental.
Eclipsed · M
Hi there eklipse.. haha
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Eclipsed Hi there, shadow of mine XD
Eclipsed · M
@Rilyn haha Ikr.. lol
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
When they’re too judgy
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
All the time
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Vivaci Ugly xD
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
You don't judge others cause you'd be the one who'd get sick mentally .
Some people would try and make you have resentments as a form of guilt tripping .
I like these days when people have resentments towards me these days cause it keeps my mind active to figure it out , which insecurities are eating them alive
Adstar · 56-60, M
From the moment i first see them.. Everyone is making judgements about other people all the time..
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Their eyes and body language always give off a first impression. I’m fairly relaxed, so I’ll just wait for their actions to validate (or invalidate) my supposition(s).

I try not to pass judgement unless I find someone completely useless.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Adogslife Body language helps. Except online. Ha! Doesn't tell you junk unless you've got a supremely higher ego that kisses butt XD
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Rilyn
Ha! Doesn't tell you junk unless you've got a supremely higher ego that kisses butt XD

So that’s where I went wrong 😂

I flunked ass kissing and barely passed diplomacy.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Right from the start. First impressions say a lot.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Never
It can be a very lonely place up on the moral pedisetal ❤️
SW-User
All the fucking time
I know exactly, I trust no one. The fucked part about that feeling is, it ain’t like “just on the streets” but in a global scale.@SW-User
Trust from my experience, I dodged bullets, I’m amazed I’m still alive now and I shouldn’t be.
I say I don't, but during Thanksgiving dinner, I was listening to a table of relatives talk about all sorts of things and I just kept silent and judged every damn one of them. SO much for thinking I do not judge.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@BiasForAction the magic of relatives huh?
@Rilyn If my thoughts were searchable I would be banned from every holiday gathering.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@BiasForAction I understand that too
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
When they are deliberately obtuse or display willing ignorance.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger Abtuse xD
SW-User
And they’re rude to others without a reason.
When it's something I see every day. If I see one person after another doing something harmful, like people driving stupidly or people on SW bullying someone, I generally tend to think they're really dumb, "herd mentality" cattle that think if a lot of people agree with them, that makes them right.

But if it's something less common, like yesterday when I saw a girl all dressed up with lobe cuffs and black contacts, I don't judge them. She just likes the style. It's not a big deal. And she did pull it off well, too.

Oh and another thing I do judge people for is talking behind someone's back, like all the employees at the gas station did when that girl left. Cowards.
If you believe it the foolishness that is astrology, you’re constantly judging.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
When people resort to name calling to get their point across.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@BalladOfADeadSoulja This is about when I judge others. That is my opinion and I was asking a question.
@iamonfire696 I wasn’t either?so what’s your point?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@BalladOfADeadSoulja that I was asking a question and you answered it….
SW-User
When their stories are ridiculous and unbelievable, I'm assuming that they think I'm gullible I'd believe anything.. Of course I'm judging and think "you bloody liar, who you trying to kid"
SW-User
@BalladOfADeadSoulja it's hard to, that's for sure
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Yea. I've been through an experience that tells me I can only believe what I'm told irrespective of it being true or otherwise.
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User 🤔😅🤣🤭
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SW-User
Strictly speaking; I judge people and things all the time. We all do. Forming judgements is a natural human behaviour.

It's when your judgements are harsh or unfairly condemnatory that they become a problem.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User No one enjoys feeling "attacked" or having their ego dented.

 
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