@Mattie0005 I've encountered those too.

@Mattie0005 and they try to shut you up the moment you wanna say smth about yourself

@Snowvixen Yep, tiresome.

@Rutterman Yep, we all need a little peace.

@questionWeaver Great list.

I'm guessing you don't like Greta Thunberg then 😆

@Nimbus no ... greta is not on my christmas card short list

@TexChik lolol,

@BalmyNites Either will fit :)

@Nimbus Absolutely, I like a peaceful life 😌

@BalmyNites Me too ;)

@SW-User 😛

@cherokeepatti It's awful because they will gaslight. They make sure you can't "win", even though there is no competition.

My sister's favorite mode of hurting others is to publicly shame whomever she is mad at on sites like FB. She knows exactly how to sound like a victim. She is no victim. She admitted to me this last time around that she "fakes" being nice and that she was "faking it with me". She expected me to crumble yet again. Can you imagine? I knew right there and then that I had to just let her go.

Your sister is probably much like my sister. The more you give them emotionally, the more they hurt. I saw this with her own friends, including her long time best friend who would have done anything for her.

I can only say that life is better when you no longer question yourself with people like this. My radar is up. I can never go back to being that naive woman with a big heart.

@Peapod I understand all too well. She writes things and tells half-truths....takes something that people know about and embellishes the story where it doesn’t even resemble the truth. It’s not just about me. She has written letters to the local newspaper the week before Christmas about her ex-husband, he was really good to her and did so much. I can’t believe the newspaper would print that but what it added up to was a guilt trip on him for divorcing her. He had to protect their 3 children, and she was refusing to pay child support & she never mentioned that little bit either. I don’t have her added to my FB, I just use it to monitor her and see what she’s up to. She did a request about a month ago for me to add her and I ignored it. Come to find out she was needing someone to take her for her colonoscopy, it had been about 8 years since the last one & I took her to that. I guess none of her 3 kids want to take off of work to take her.

@cherokeepatti I got the chills reading your account of your sister because this is mine as well. There is so much she has done to others that is so familiar to the story of yours. Luckily mine did not have children. But she deeply hurt people that never deserved it.

I do have her blocked from all my social media since that is her favorite place to go look for trouble. I intend to stay far away for my own sanity. It's better this way.

@QueenandCrown They're very difficult to understand.

@Nimbus once you know how they work it’s easy to understand them.

@Nanori Yep!

@Lilymoon Yep, they bring everyone down.

@Nimbus defo

@minxy yup! So much!

@minxy lol, gets me twitching :)

@EmoRapid 👍

@EmoRapid I’m passive aggressive, and what are you going to do about it, buddy?

@pianoplayingsteve

@AbbeyRhode More importantly why do you? ;)

@Nimbus I tend to avoid people who hate me, and every value that I hold dear. 🙄

@AbbeyRhode Awwwww, I know, it's natural *hugs*

@SW-User Worse than perfectionists :)

@SW-User Or as I call them “Contrarians”.

@GLITTER 😯

@CrazyMusicLover 👍

@Chelsiegirl They destroy the spirit.

@Nimbus i dont want to be hurt.

@cherokeepatti lol, sums it up.

@Nimbus two family members anyway🤣

@Dusty101 I agree, they are a pain :)

@faithfulhusband 👍

@valobasa4ever 💗

@shuhak lol, what knob?

@Nimbus I think the biological term is "head". {Note: this is in no way implying intelligence}

@Harriet03 Very uncomfortable :(

@Harriet03 😖

@iamelijah 👍

@MissTaken lol, 😝

@Nimbus You know I’m not serious 😂😂

@MissTaken I do?


Yes, I do ;)

@Ingwe Shouldn't be a problem re Covid restrictions now :)

@Nimbus it's sad that it is so wonderful

@TheSirfurryanimalWales 😯

What have they done?

@Thevy29 Good one.

@SweetMae Me too.
Basically they are inconsiderate.

It’s wasn’t in bold caps. @Nimbus

@Nimbus more like distaste 🤮🤮🤣🤣

@jackjjackson 👍👍😁

@Elessar 👍

@smiler2012 True, as much as you can the title this season :)

@Nimbus glad you are taking it well nimby as your tenner was covering that bet 😆

@smiler2012 Pffft, I give that to the homeless ever week :)

@SW-User Best to avoid the House of Parliament then :)

@Nanori You've got my approval, you're one of the good ones. 😉

@Synyster thanks grandpa 😌

@Nanori Grandpa? lol

@OldMan70 👍

@Entwistle Unfortunately so.

@HannibalMontanimal 😆

@jackjjackson None too easy to avoid on SW ;)

The ones that haven’t blocked me fear an intellectual discussion with me. I rarely see the pantywaists. @Nimbus

@pianoplayingsteve makes me think they had parents who would never make them be responsible for their own actions.

@pianoplayingsteve Oh, they are increasing by the day now.