@SW-User it most certainly is male ego

@OwnerOfMany Well, I know I'm not a bigot, lol... I'm all for actual real equality. A world of meritocracy where ability gets you places, not skin colour or what you have between your legs.

I'm not however blind to that fact that people do have differences, but those differences are not there to divide us, they are there to be slotted together like a huge, complicated jigsaw puzzle to give us a full picture of humanity.

I just object when some people think that certain puzzle pieces have more worth than others.

@longhairedcougar You have totally missed the point of the entire conversation. You made a statement which was factually incorrect and I provided an example of how you were incorrect using the two of us as examples.

You've responded with personal attacks after feeling threatened for some reason I assume.

@Quizzical you and your assumptions 🤦‍♀ grow up kid.. Just the physical dimensions don't matter 🤣

@Ryannnnnn hmm...yes that could be a reason.

@ClanNaFiacaillApWythe only a man who has never gone to sleep hungry could complain about that.

@ClanNaFiacaillApWythe Which s why I have little sympathy for women getting beat by their boyfriends- most often they caused it themselves by deception.

@Anonymartyr Well there is a difference between bonding oneself with a winner and a brute. They are not necessarily the same thing.

@Chevy454 what's hard? not having to worry about where the family's next meal is going to come from? being able to afford more than just basic necessities of life for yourselves and your kids? Not having to sleep cold and hungry?

@Chevy454 feeling guilty about spending money without permission. Not talking about major purchases

@Chevy454 what permission? and major purchases already require both spouses to come to an agreement. What has it got to do with one or the other making more?

@SW-User its true, what he said was taken out of context, but it doesnt change what im pretty sure is misandrist views on your part. i just see my role as to explain the positions here when i see theres miscommunication, not force people to own up to anything
i agree though, theres many men with issues on self security that need to work on it

@Zaxel It isn't a "misandrist view" to acknowledge that this is pretty much usually a male problem. It's a product of western society, not me taking a hit at men as a whole. I think most people can see who is affected most by these weird financial insecurities (obviously people that are expected by society to do well financially = men)

@SW-User sure i agree for the most part