Impacts on life

I've asked myself that same question. I feel like if I wasn't molested by my sister maybe I wouldn't so screwed up. If my parents weren't so strict and let me live as teen maybe I'd have a career and a home now. Anxiety and depression is the result of what they did to me. I just do the best I can for now and seek therapy for healing.

Don't waste yourself wondering. Create what you want in your life and you'll be happy. Keep looking forward. If you keep looking in the rearview mirror, you'll never move forward or get your life in order. We don't live in the past. That's dead and cannot be changed, but we can change our future to anything we want. Dream it and you can do it. Don't waste any more valuable time. Life is too precious to waste. It is a gift and attitude means everything.

There's no point dwelling on "what ifs". We'll never know. We might think that if we had tried X instead of Y, then things would be so much better, but in fact they could have ended much worse... we'll never know, there's no point try to guess what could have happened...

You could drive yourself crazy, thinking about what if's ...
I look at it like, hey, I'm not a victim...I'm a survivor. ❤️❤️😇😇🤗🤗

{@kimber14] 🤔 sadly we could all think that what if and buts or maybes but we just have too deal with the hand we have got

we can't know. we can only make the best of what we are

You talk about it so that's good. Just don't obsess over it as that will depress you. At this point just focus on the present and don't be axious about the future.

I haven't seen so much life in anyone before, you have a that sense of humour that can make anyone laugh...

i must remind myself so often to look forward and not in the rearview mirror

I hope whoever done this to you went to prison

I think it might be better to reflect upon what your lessons from your life is and what your needs and wishes are where you want to be in life and then act upon it, e.g. putting it into practice....instead of always wondering

I suppose there are times when we wonder what if, I know that I've done it, but maybe some of the good things might not have happened either

I think we all have those "what ifs", it's not uncommon or unusual, I know you are the best you could possible be with life's experiences.

That boyfriend will happen when you least expect it.

Do u ever talk about it? U can pm me if u like. I would like to know more.

hard to know but we do wonder

What brings on the what ifs?

While I think we all take time wondering about what i call the "road less traveled" there comes a time you need to say goodbye to the past and just move forward. you never know what good things are waiting!

sometimes its better not to dwell on "the road less traveled"

Do you want to take another turn at it? You should

want a large family?

Fuck me now Daddy needs it

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You cant think like that. You just have to work at moving past this and being the best person you can be

You wish he would have knocked you up? I m going yo

We all think that at times and wonder how our lives would’ve changed

@kimber14 impacts on life is what defines us. 😊

You wouldnt be you, so lets make a baby

Are you mad I got you pregnant?

What happened?