Impacts on life

Kimber I have worn those shoes just like the ones you you wear, but it was a lot longer time ago that it happened many times, I can only say, or give you this advice, Let time be your friend, and put your history behind you. Supress the bad things, to stop them from consuming you, for the reason you want to move on, to try and find the better things out there that life has to offer. They are there, but you have to keep looking, be strong and don't tire from the new hurdles life will throw at you as you go too.
Believe me those very things you wonder about in what you wrote about above, will still be there in a different form, for other reasons than what happened to you, and you will have very similar wonders.
Be your own friend and teach your self to move on, as there are much better things out there to find, but you have to keep looking, it does and can take lots of time. even when you start to find those better, and good things, there will always be new hurdles that you have to find a way over or around.
Please keep looking there are good things out there, but they don't just come to you. Keep going forward, find the strength to keep looking until you find your much kinder, and much happier life you want to live in. good luck as well.😘.

We always second guess ourselves. I have had something happen to me when I was very young, and I believe it made me a part of what I am today. All you can do now, is be yourself, and treat others like you would want to be treated. Whatever you went through, or whatever happened to you, I am truly sorry. And know, there are people out there you can talk to about it. I'm one of them. Mandy. Me. 18 from Florida. 🤗

I think we all wonder about the "road less traveled" from time to time but I think it best we just make the best of what we have. Life on this earth is too short for regrets.

Kim, Hi. I'm Mandy. I am 18 and live in Florida. You are more than welcome to PM me. I'd like for us to talk, okay.

But your creation of yourself has not stopped.

Your discovery of who you are and who you can be is still ongoing.

Wondering about what could have been emphasises what is in the past.

Your past is gone. It will have some impact on your future - but never as much as you own decisions and choices.

How about saying, "Well here I am. What gifts and abilities do I have? How do I want to develop them? What do I want to be? What do I want to do?"

Your future is for you. Go get it:)

Kimber, would you please message me. I cant message you again until you reply. Thank you. We have things in common. 😉

Kim, would you please PM me. I'd LOVE to become friends and get to know each other. 🤗

I'll pray for you i cant change your past but i can pray life improves @kimber14

I messaged you. I would like to chat. Would you message me back please if you would like to talk? Thank you

We have something in common. I need someone to talk to about it. 🥺

Sometimes its difficult thinking about the past, its best to leave it there, but its not easy

I had a grandma God rest her soul that used to call that "the road less traveled." She was never a fan of second guessing she would just tell my mom you made your decision go with it!

Oh! I'm sorry to hear...

True

Ive wondered that about myself also.

Um, we have things in common.................

Don't waste yourself wondering. Create what you want in your life and you'll be happy. Keep looking forward. If you keep looking in the rearview mirror, you'll never move forward or get your life in order. We don't live in the past. That's dead and cannot be changed, but we can change our future to anything we want. Dream it and you can do it. Don't waste any more valuable time. Life is too precious to waste. It is a gift and attitude means everything.

Little brat

I've asked myself that same question. I feel like if I wasn't molested by my sister maybe I wouldn't so screwed up. If my parents weren't so strict and let me live as teen maybe I'd have a career and a home now. Anxiety and depression is the result of what they did to me. I just do the best I can for now and seek therapy for healing.

There's no point dwelling on "what ifs". We'll never know. We might think that if we had tried X instead of Y, then things would be so much better, but in fact they could have ended much worse... we'll never know, there's no point try to guess what could have happened...

{@kimber14] 🤔 sadly we could all think that what if and buts or maybes but we just have too deal with the hand we have got

we can't know. we can only make the best of what we are

You talk about it so that's good. Just don't obsess over it as that will depress you. At this point just focus on the present and don't be axious about the future.

You could drive yourself crazy, thinking about what if's ...
I look at it like, hey, I'm not a victim...I'm a survivor. ❤️❤️😇😇🤗🤗

i must remind myself so often to look forward and not in the rearview mirror

I haven't seen so much life in anyone before, you have a that sense of humour that can make anyone laugh...

I think it might be better to reflect upon what your lessons from your life is and what your needs and wishes are where you want to be in life and then act upon it, e.g. putting it into practice....instead of always wondering

I suppose there are times when we wonder what if, I know that I've done it, but maybe some of the good things might not have happened either

I think we all have those "what ifs", it's not uncommon or unusual, I know you are the best you could possible be with life's experiences.

Do u ever talk about it? U can pm me if u like. I would like to know more.

hard to know but we do wonder

What brings on the what ifs?

That boyfriend will happen when you least expect it.

While I think we all take time wondering about what i call the "road less traveled" there comes a time you need to say goodbye to the past and just move forward. you never know what good things are waiting!

I hope whoever done this to you went to prison

Curious as to what kind of betting you did in school?

sometimes its better not to dwell on "the road less traveled"

Do you want to take another turn at it? You should

want a large family?

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You cant think like that. You just have to work at moving past this and being the best person you can be

We all think that at times and wonder how our lives would’ve changed

@kimber14 impacts on life is what defines us. 😊

What happened?

Hola, Kimber! 🩷

You wouldnt be you, so lets make a baby

You wish he would have knocked you up? I m going yo

Are you mad I got you pregnant?

Fuck me now Daddy needs it