Impacts on life

I think sometimes the hardest thing is just wondering how I would be if it hadn't happened. Would I be completely different, more outgoing less outgoing. Would I have been betting in school. Would I have better luck with boyfriends.

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gfantasy · 56-60, M

There's no point dwelling on "what ifs". We'll never know. We might think that if we had tried X instead of Y, then things would be so much better, but in fact they could have ended much worse... we'll never know, there's no point try to guess what could have happened...