Impacts on life
I think sometimes the hardest thing is just wondering how I would be if it hadn't happened. Would I be completely different, more outgoing less outgoing. Would I have been betting in school. Would I have better luck with boyfriends.
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Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
But your creation of yourself has not stopped.
Your discovery of who you are and who you can be is still ongoing.
Wondering about what could have been emphasises what is in the past.
Your past is gone. It will have some impact on your future - but never as much as you own decisions and choices.
How about saying, "Well here I am. What gifts and abilities do I have? How do I want to develop them? What do I want to be? What do I want to do?"
Your future is for you. Go get it:)
Your discovery of who you are and who you can be is still ongoing.
Wondering about what could have been emphasises what is in the past.
Your past is gone. It will have some impact on your future - but never as much as you own decisions and choices.
How about saying, "Well here I am. What gifts and abilities do I have? How do I want to develop them? What do I want to be? What do I want to do?"
Your future is for you. Go get it:)