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Can guys sense when an woman has been sexually assaulted ?

I wonder because I was and I always end up with guys trying To take advantage of me or creepy guys. At work I do wonder if that’s something to do with how some treat me , I don’t tell anyone anything so I do wonder if they can sense that in women.
Fairydust · F
Predators look for weakness, empaths.

Oops typos lol 😂
CharlesRomsey · 61-69, M
I did some voluntary work in a nearby city with Street Pastors. I had to stop because I couldn't handle the trauma. The breaking point was helping a young girl who had her drink spiked: she had lost her panties, she was bleeding from her vagina and her anus. She couldn't remember what had happened. Sometimes, I hate men.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
No.

But predatory men either search for, manipulate, or create opportunities to sexually assault others. So it's always good to watch out for yourself and give'em no quarter.

Generally manipulating others isn't new to people like that. They've treated other people as guinea pigs to test small manipulations and offenses against until they build up to worse and worse offenses.

They will watch to see if they think you have a personality or lack of strength against them and whatever tools/manpower they have that will let them leave with out serious injury or a prison sentence. They will also watch to see if bystanders will let them assault or harass or drug someone. They will always have a ready excuse for their behavior or try to gaslight you or blame you.
Graylight · 51-55, F
Victims tend to be identifiable, yes. And previous victimization increases the likelihood of future victimization until learned helplessness creates a loop.

You can project a different persona to the world, and it starts with confidence and boundaries.
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
No is the short answer.

One of my first serious girlfriends had been a victim years before I’d met her, and I had no idea until I was told years later. To be fair I was only 19 and not very worldly when it came to these things.
DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M
Um... I don't think so? I mean if a guy gets along with a girl and it starts turning into something bigger than friendship but the girl backs off when things get sexual that would be a red flag givaway.
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Assaulted no, weak and easy yes
SW-User
@Barny52 Okay, the short answer somehow read to me, you are blaming them.
Barny52 · 56-60, M
@SW-User no no no that’s not what I was saying don’t believe that for a second ! Sorry if you read it that way
SW-User
@Barny52 It's okay, how I read something is mine. I take you meant well
Daiffanyi · 46-50, M
For me yes I can sense it. It has over time educated me on how to help heal the wounded. And there are a lot of women that have been wounded in this ugly world...I apologize for your harm...
SW-User
It is sad, but I think people can sense weakness and use that against them. It won't be unique to here, but definitely there will be some who take advantage.
SW-User
Sense that a woman was sexually assaulted? No.

Sense insecurity, low selfesteem and stuff like that? Yeah.

 
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