I’m really wondering if people are making up perceptions of who they believe I am over singular not so polished moments

So you think that one mistake or bad judgment call is my whole personality?

Anyway they can think what they want but it’s still frustrating.

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Pretzel · 70-79, M

there's an expression - "you never get a second chance to make a first impression"

and sometimes it takes a while to over come one unfortunate faux pas

Cremosa · FNew

@Pretzel welp. My first impressions are never good anyway 😂

Pretzel · 70-79, M

@Cremosa probably better than you give yourself credit for :)

Ohplease47 · F

When we need most to be understood it fails us the most. Its all just too...hard?

SinlessOnslaught · M

Perceptions, interpretations, judgments occur naturally but they can also be reinforced if it supports a biased narrative that someone clings to, like a person other than themselves looking bad to boost their ego.

Short answer, yes, they make it up. It comes naturally to them.