I have stopped caring about fairness

I consider myself fairly educated, and if I'm not sure about a topic, I do my research. If someone has a difference in opinion on something that has been said, I shrug it off. It's not worth my time or effort arguing.

Although i agree with you. I have to also say that maybe i can be wrong sometimes. I try hard not to argue unless i feel 100% that my position is correct. I will often do a deep dive into the subject and post a quotation if it is on social media.

In trl life, my administrator, when i left the institution i had been at for over 30 years said, you can be arrogant, abrasive, and antagonistic, but darn it, you were always right! In. Hate to lose a fight, so will never fight without the proper support

You’re not wrong for feeling this way. It’s tiring being thoughtful in a world where so many people aren’t.

An opinion is an opinion

Even the experts change their minds based on new information

But I agree

If you hear something that doesn't pass the sniff test...I need to listen to it

And thus another opportunity to train someone to understand there can be opposing viewpoints without either side being absolutely right or wrong. Failure to listen is the biggest downfall in communication; the equivalent of falling upon that weapon you are wielding.

Thank you. Thank you, this skillfully articulates feelings I’ve been having for awhile.

Fairness only works if everyone is fair, or those few who arent get called on in publicly and immediately. If you want your own way, dont engage with others. It will only disappoint if you count on them to be fair..😷

Yeah, my brain tunes out after a certain point. I don't like wasting my time.

Thanks for the heads up 👍

Mind if I let the "bad guy" say stuff on my blog?

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