DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
In my experience, men cheat because they aren't getting their physical needs met by their partner. Women cheat because they aren't getting their emotional needs met by their partner.
thisguy20 · 41-45, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Exactly
Ananke · 26-30, F
How is cheating an accident?? LMAO. Sorry I just tripped and fell into being unfaithful. Cheating is a deliberate action a person takes.
This whole statement is based in nothing. People-man or woman- cheat for a wide variety of reasons. Some are afraid of commitment. Some people do it because they have self esteem issues. Some people may have issues with their current relationship but be unable or unwilling to leave it for whatever reason and so seek solace in another person. Some people are sex addicts or adrenaline junkies. Cheating is really very complex. I suggest reading books on it, there are many good ones out there.
This whole statement is based in nothing. People-man or woman- cheat for a wide variety of reasons. Some are afraid of commitment. Some people do it because they have self esteem issues. Some people may have issues with their current relationship but be unable or unwilling to leave it for whatever reason and so seek solace in another person. Some people are sex addicts or adrenaline junkies. Cheating is really very complex. I suggest reading books on it, there are many good ones out there.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Look, if we are honestly going to gender this, fine, but let's be honest here.
Men cheat because they fear or refuse to actually emotionally commit to someone and be vulnerable with someone. Or they think they aren't going to get sex out of the current relationship.
Women cheat because they have been emotionally abandoned by the one they love because that person can't emotionally commit to someone.
You know what fixes cheating?
Working on yourself to have healthier relationships.
Men cheat because they fear or refuse to actually emotionally commit to someone and be vulnerable with someone. Or they think they aren't going to get sex out of the current relationship.
Women cheat because they have been emotionally abandoned by the one they love because that person can't emotionally commit to someone.
You know what fixes cheating?
Working on yourself to have healthier relationships.
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FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@SilentObZerver Oh yeah, that's the real problem here. 🙄
bijouxbroussard · F
@SilentObZerver Misogyny is a fact.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@FoxyQueen men cheat because they can and think they wont get caught. If it was possible theyd have sex with every woman they find attractive.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
My opinion is that you're 22-25 age range so maybe you get a pass because the brain is still developing till the age of 25.
@CrazyMusicLover I agree with you even if it doesn't answer him directly. Yet I am still going with your answer. I had a woman cheat on me, I know she didn't to hurt me and more she was feeling when I was grieving she couldn't find in me what she needed.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@awildsheepschase I find the whole concept absurd and ridiculously egocentric. Sorry to break it to men who think they are the center of the universe and everything other people do has to have something to do with them but the truth is they might be the last thing on their partner's mind when they cheat.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@CrazyMusicLover lol i sense you have a problem with men
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Okay so the man's car gravitates to some motel room where they fall into bed with a naked woman? If that's not the case,and of course it isn't, then it's no accident.
Cheating hurts women very badly, just like it hurts men, and the one doing the cheating whether they're a man or a woman is hurting their partner.
Cheating hurts women very badly, just like it hurts men, and the one doing the cheating whether they're a man or a woman is hurting their partner.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Justmeraeagain I have actually seen the claim "I accidentally had an affair" by a guy on Facebook. 🙄
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@DrWatson Sure,fella and his wife just accidentally divorced him.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Nobody cheats on accident.
The real issue is accountability, which most men seem to lack. Being irresponsible, selfish and destructive is not an accident. It might make you feel better about your choice, but it doesn't make it okay to cheat on your partner when they believe you are committed to them.
The real issue is accountability, which most men seem to lack. Being irresponsible, selfish and destructive is not an accident. It might make you feel better about your choice, but it doesn't make it okay to cheat on your partner when they believe you are committed to them.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
Cheating by accident? That's a good one. I should have tried that one.
I was at the seven eleven getting some nachos with chilli when I fell on this naked woman and for some reason I wasn't wearing any pants.
I was at the seven eleven getting some nachos with chilli when I fell on this naked woman and for some reason I wasn't wearing any pants.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Infamous607
Or how about, "I was tying to drive to a floral shop to buy you some flowers, but I got lost and ended up in that motel room by mistake. Because, you know, men never stop and ask for directions."
Or how about, "I was tying to drive to a floral shop to buy you some flowers, but I got lost and ended up in that motel room by mistake. Because, you know, men never stop and ask for directions."
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
@DrWatson Exactly!
Piper · 61-69, F
I believe it to be a false and absurd generalization, most sincerely.
bijouxbroussard · F
It’s a generalization, which is usually false. But it sounds like an attempt to get guys off the hook by holding them less responsible.
Both genders make the choice to cheat, and it’s based on dishonesty and selfishness.
Both genders make the choice to cheat, and it’s based on dishonesty and selfishness.
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How can anyone cheat accidentally? You tripped over your own feet and your d just landed in a p that happened to be bare? 😂
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@NerdyPotato "I swear, the next thing I knew, my chocolate was in her peanut butter honey!!! I swear!!!"
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@NerdyPotato 🤣
SomeMichGuy · M
...y-y-YES! Why, that's EXACTLY what happened to me, @NerdyPotato--thank you! And to have my p_n_s be exposed and her p_ssy exposed and trip just right so that tip got in--one in a BILLION! 😉🤣🤣😂
Thank you for that reply.
I think the position being taken by the author of the words on the image is that men don't set out to cheat (obviously wrong in at least some cases), but women do (which, taken as an absolute statement, seems ludicrous).
People who use the universal quantifiers in logic tend to be provably wrong.
Thank you for that reply.
I think the position being taken by the author of the words on the image is that men don't set out to cheat (obviously wrong in at least some cases), but women do (which, taken as an absolute statement, seems ludicrous).
People who use the universal quantifiers in logic tend to be provably wrong.
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
Accidentally? 🙄 Yeah Right.
Infamous607 · 51-55, M
I was hoping this wasn't a d pic.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Seems naive to me.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
That is bull.
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ElwoodBlues · M
@Miram Agreed. "Cheat accidentally"?? Have you ever seen a sillier attempt to avoid responsibility for choices made and actions taken???
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SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
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