I'm a fan of being direct with people but not being a dick.(Tactful )I don't respect passive aggressive behavior at all because I find it kind of cowardly, sneaky and underhanded in a way.

Like if there's a problem, address it with the actual person or let it go but all the in between and weaponizing and coding is gross.


I don't like the anger issues thing either and it's an enormous turn off to me both in a romantic and platonic sense. I don't like people enabling it either. That's how they got to adulthood and are still displaying that behavior. Because everyone in their life made excuses and let it slide "because that's just how they are." I don't want to be friends with nor date an overemotional bully. 🤷🏾

hmm i see

With decreasing quality of life, we will see more and more of it.

I have no patience for any of this behavior

I do understand, but not everyone is like you . People process different.

If you live certain places there are people like this everywhere. Its ghetto behavior. You'll see it where there is a huge drug problem too.

I believe they do it to intimidate, and control, mainly. 🙁

Agreed. It’s wild how easily some people get triggered over absolutely nothing. Unfortunately, that aggressive mindset is drilled into men so early on that they barely even realize they’re doing it. It’s a strange way to live.