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I can’t tolerate men with anger issues .

This has consistently been my biggest turn off .I can’t stand a guy shouting,or yelling or trying to prove his point by being rude and angry.
Its like a switch .If I sense anger in him ,it instantly switches me off .

Women also,who are obsessed with showing anger and aggression,towards just anyone,its such a shame and unnecessary.

Also ,passive aggression is a very common practice nowadays amongst adults .
Overall just why do you need to be hysteric or aggressive to prove your point??


You can do the same by lowering your voice or maybe just be quiet if people don’t understand you .

There’s no point in putting so much pressure on yourself and others .
Ultimately people can process even silence if they truly know you .
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I'm a fan of being direct with people but not being a dick.(Tactful )I don't respect passive aggressive behavior at all because I find it kind of cowardly, sneaky and underhanded in a way.

Like if there's a problem, address it with the actual person or let it go but all the in between and weaponizing and coding is gross.


I don't like the anger issues thing either and it's an enormous turn off to me both in a romantic and platonic sense. I don't like people enabling it either. That's how they got to adulthood and are still displaying that behavior. Because everyone in their life made excuses and let it slide "because that's just how they are." I don't want to be friends with nor date an overemotional bully. 🤷🏾
GoFish ·
hmm i see
Birdbox1986 · 31-35, F
Atari2678 · 41-45, M
I do understand, but not everyone is like you . People process different.
Frostcloud · F
@Atari2678 people process things differently, that's true. but it's not an excuse for someone with anger issues to take it out on their partner. especially in a scenario where a man with anger issues is raising his voice and directing his temper on, most likely, a smaller partner
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
I believe they do it to intimidate, and control, mainly. 🙁

 
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