OogieBoogie · F
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@OogieBoogie yes
LifeVoice101 · 41-45, M
@OogieBoogie Yeah, I think you might be right. I’ve spent a lot of time just trying to survive and rebuild my life, and now that things are more stable, I’m realizing I don’t really know what I’m working toward anymore. Maybe finding a new purpose is part of what I’m missing.
OogieBoogie · F
@LifeVoice101 it might not even be a purpose, but a direction.
Change is hard, it hurts.
Even if its good change.
Every change requires the loss of some things to make room for new.
Sometimes that loss happens first and leaves a void.... which is the space for change to happen.
So maybe you just need a change ? 🤷♀
Change is hard, it hurts.
Even if its good change.
Every change requires the loss of some things to make room for new.
Sometimes that loss happens first and leaves a void.... which is the space for change to happen.
So maybe you just need a change ? 🤷♀
DanielsASJ · 36-40, M
First know The Lord. That deep connection you long for is in The Lord. Go close to God. Serve him. You will become happy. People usually meet and greet when they find you happy. This is eternal happiness and the promise of God. First you seek the kingdom of Heaven and everything else will be added unto you.
Mindful · 56-60, F
Beautifully written. It speaks to me as in I feel I can relate to what you said, it's not about being alone but not feeling connected, understood, or like you belong somewhere. Yeah, that. But I struggle with being vulnerable even more, so I isolate a lot. Yep. Thanks for writing this. I enjoyed it.
OutoftheGloom · 46-50, F
We are wired for connection. I never felt lonelier since my husband died. It's messed with my head and made me do a lot of stupid things because of adjusting to everything I lost and my need for connection. Take your time and just keep doing new things where you will meet someone. Connection with happen eventually when the time is right xx
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@OutoftheGloom very true advice