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Would u sleep with someone who is a co worker ?

What if they are not your friend.
This lady on my job has a crush on me.
She wants me to sleep with her.
How did I know.
Because she keeps making herself available to me in many ways.
Like inviting me to her place.
Or going out.
Or staring at me constantly.
Or talking about me to other girls about me.
Yeah she does that too.
She thinks I don't like her though.
Because I dont really engage with her like that.
And because I try to stay clear of her.
Hmmmmmmm.
What do you think ?
Am i wrong for ignoring her signs.
I dont think so.
Shes dramatic.
Plus she is very open with her um, body if you know what I mean.
But she has tried to get me in her web before.
What do you think ?
Would you sleep with a co worker, and have you done this before.
Ive done this only once before. But I was actual friends with the young lady.
I was not a stranger to her like I am this lady.
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CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
Just a curious question here- do all sardines come in cans? I am seriously gonna say it without making it oblivious 😐 she only wants what she cant have until she gets what she hasnt got. Once u give in, the moment of pleasure wont last...she will use you then lose u. Do not, i repeat, do not eat where you work..the stench wint be worth the refrigerated food. If she gets u, hard telling what she gives u! She may use u as a corporate ladder and harass her way to the top..or use u as a bait for dead weights and you be swimmer with lityle fishing..her biological clock ticks..whoopsie its not urs but u get told it is...FROM EXSPERIANCED CO WORKERS i know had it happen to them..dr phil, oprah, Maury, jerry springer..yeah even sally Jessica raphael , phil donahue, geraldo. Do bueno bro!
But if u like fishing, good luck in the court corporate pond!
AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M
I did. Three different colleges.

To be fair the third is now my wife and mother of my children.
11knaves11 · 46-50, M
I have in the past.
If you haven’t, and you’re sincerely asking us here on SW for advice: Don’t!

There are so many women outside the workplace…. Find someone in a dating app… or whatever😁

I had done it once (early 20’s). And I would not and did not do it ever again. I didn’t regret the relationship because it was not a casual one and we were very serious with each other.

But if I were to be given that chance to do that all over again, I would steer clear of a co-worker.

Getting involved with a co-worker can seem exciting at first, but if things go sideways, the fallout doesn’t stay personal—it follows you to work every day.

It can affect your focus, your reputation, and how your team perceives your professionalism. Even if the relationship is genuine, others may question motives, fairness, or favoritism.

Sometimes protecting your career is worth more than risking it for a workplace romance.

Bottom line: if it gets messy, everyone at work ends up having a front-row seat.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
A woman that's dramatic and open with her body isn't worth the trouble even if you want to have sex unmarried, though it's best to just not
Sapio · 51-55, M
I have once. I wouldn't do it again.
Adstar · 56-60, M
Only if she was my wife...

Don't mix work and pleasure mate.. It's like walking into a mine field.. When you end up having a bad break up you are stuck with a very toxic environment in your work place till the end of your time there..
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Adstar Well she is definitely toxic.
So this is why I avoid her for the most part.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
noexpectations1 · 46-50, M
I don't fish off the company pier
CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
@noexpectations1 loved this!!!
calicuz · 56-60, M
Not wrong on your part, if things don't work out like she .ants, it could be trouble for you down the road,
AthrillatheHunt · 56-60, M
Although it goes against my better judgement there is 1 coworker hot enough for me to consider it. Met one of my first gfs on the job at Arby’s as a teen.
Ontheroad · M
Don't. I did one time and only one time - BIG mistake.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
I had a near two relationship with a coworker… ended in brutal devastation.
Fortunately we work at different locations

I’m still trying to shake off all the shrapnel from it

Unless one of you wants to leave the company, I wouldn’t recommend it
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Done it before & it's not a good idea but I can't say I don't recommend it lol
Fawma123 · 51-55, M
I don't think you should sleep with your co worker.Because when things don't work out you will just be a gossip to her and everyone else don't do it please keep away.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Fawma123 Plus she could tell people and it could get back to the boss.
faery · F
No, I would not... nope, nope, nope
SilverLeaves · 31-35, F
If you think it has a chance that it might be used against you then don't
Gibbon · 70-79, M
That's an absolute no no. Never someone in the workplace. It's future trouble waiting to happen.
XxBlahxX · F
Idk ide be concerned only because these days anything can be used as a reason to open a sexual harassment case against you . So even if she consents now any little bs situation can change that .

 
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