What are some things you aren't willing to sacrifice to keep a connection?

I'll always put being a parent first. I can at least give myself the props for having gotten that right. When it comes to myself though I've put way more on the line than I needed to.

I don't know what my desperation and survival needs might be in that period of time. I find that my conditions can vary according to my position.

My moral integrity, faith, honesty, personal boundaries, and self worth. Nor will I be party to treading on those of other people.

Are we talking emotions or gut health?

I’m not willing to sacrifice my true self or my children or pets

Self-respect, peace, boundaries, values, emotional well-being, authenticity and dignity.