Dancing at the drum circles for a year helped me decenter men.

I am still not quite there yet.. But being in front of hundreds of ppl where at times it was just me dancing, it rly helped me realize that I actually like being perceived, not consumed.

The drum circles gave me a safe space to experience that and not have to go home with any man. I can’t wait to join the drums here when it warms up.

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Younameit · F

I have no idea what is that but dancing sounds like a good way to connect with yourself

soulsrespite ·

It’s a magical experience, where ppl play drums🪘in a circle and ppl dance in the middle. @Younameit

Bexsy

sounds intriguing. glad you have it

soulsrespite ·

I don’t rly right now, but you never leave them once you experience them. They will bring me back when it’s time. @Bexsy

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

Drum circles are so good for your soul

soulsrespite ·

They are. 🥺 Everyone needs to feel them. @Jenny1234

Straylight · 31-35, F

What’s that like? The whole drum circle thing I mean. What goes on there? Where is it done?

soulsrespite ·

There are subcultures/communities of them everywhere. In FL, where I rly participated, they are done at beaches and parks. Ppl gather a few times a week and play drums and whoever wants to dances.

And then during the full moon, we do a 🩸 sacrifice. 🥹 @Straylight

Straylight · 31-35, F

@soulsrespite That’s sounds fun. Like some witchy/hippie stuff.
I went to a bonfire with some friends and we danced naked around it under the moon. So… similar? 🤷‍♀

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