@ScreamingFox ScreamingFox, I am not a perfect person and I admit I am no trained psychologist but I do know that after reading what you just honestly revealed to me I can actually feel and sense your hurtness. I know and believe that there is hope, that someday when you least expect it, your perfect someone, will meet you. You can't just abandon all hope, what if they held that same attitude and feeling? No, please I pray for you two 'soul mates' to someday meet. Prehaps it will be at a location you'd both never dreamt of.
Yes, it's the little things that mean so much. My loving wife revealed that one of the major reasons she loves me so much is security. With me, she knows that she is safe and protected, loved unconditionally—not for what she becomes, but for who she is now.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart Thanks PerfectionOfTheHeart. I've discovered personally that 'true love' is based primarily on Forgiveness and having a mutual 'level of tolerance'. With those two topics are essential.
@AMC55USA every love and safety I've ever believed in was plucked from my heart and replaced with hurt. It never changes for me and hope has only made it worse. Giving up sets me free.
