@justbob it might be a blessing to be so simple minded

@justbob Pakistan does not kill immigrants at its borders.

@writhe So you know. I was referring to then Czechoslovakia. And no where near Prague.

@DeWayfarer not you. But look at the comments...

@writhe Some on this post have me blocked.

@writhe I don't think you are pushing her away. You planted a seed. You gave her some information that she needs to think about and weigh in her mind. Of course whatever she decides, it's her decision. She may appear to be distant from you now, but that will change once she has dealt with and given more thought to your information. The best you can do now is simply to give it time. Don't you bring it up again. If she wants to discuss it more with you, let her bring it up. If she doesn't, consider the case closed.

@IM5688 thank you for your comment. You're right that's what I'll do and I hope there is no drama ever.

@writhe Glad to share my thoughts with you anytime. Hope I was of help to you.

@SatanBurger Somebody needs to point out that

1. American troops do not shoot at illegal immigrants and never have and never would

and

2. The reason the Nazis put their troops on meth was to keep them alert and active in combat and on long plane flights to help them fight off fatigue

The rest is just opinions you are entitled to your opinions but these two things are facts and the truth is worth pointing out.

@DeWayfarer My father relayed that he was with a squad sent to retrieve a holdout German soldier threatening and harassing local girls dating allied soldiers during the occupation.

The Guy was being real nasty and beligerent. The ex-con sargeant told the German, "Mate, you're not going to make it." Shot him dead.

They sweated it. This is murder. Thoughts of stockade, firing squad, etc. worried them.

The Colonel, not fond of Germans, told them to not to do it again. Told them to leave his office. No charges.

@Neoerectus War is hell.

My father was in a Nazi prison camp, in Czechoslovakia, with his grandfather shot in his home. My father escaped after a few years. He was uncertain if he killed the guard or not. Escaping, he went to Italy and wound up in the hospital, weighing 90 pounds. The guard wasn't much heavier than him.

That was just my father side. And it's not all of it. I can't describe what happened in prison camp.

@DeWayfarer My father had pictures from Buchenwald concentration camp that his batallion liberated ... Understood.

@RosaMarie well I didn't enforce anything, she confided in me that's the way she thinks (not that I didn't know already). She had these views before she knew about it. But now I'm trying to stay more neutral and if you read the post I did apologize even in my drunk state about my comment.

@RosaMarie I don't believe that she was forcing her values on her sister. She stated that these were her sister's values.

@writhe I think you're doing the right thing to be honest, you just need to be open and available if she wants to reach out. Best you can do

@4meAndyou what? I didn't tell her anything she doesn't know about, he had told her all that before and then he told me too. It wasn't hidden information.
As for "there are things I've done in the army that your sister doesn't know about", idk what he was talking about, didn't specify.
Even so, even if what you are saying was what actually happened, how logical would it be for someone to admit that to the sibling of their SO and hide it from their own SO? A sibling they just met mind you.
You must be out of your mind if you think I'd keep a secret from my sister for a stranger.

@writhe Well, my dear...he is not exactly a stranger to HER.

@JamesBugman I wish he could have kept it hidden until he had worked with himself fully with it and with his conscience.

@JamesBugman the only thing giving me hope is that he's left all that behind and would not go back, so no guns on the horizon, but the way you talk about it I admit it does bring me horror to think that this could be my sister in the future.

@writhe In many families people care about each other. That doesn’t make yours special or unique.

But sometimes caring means knowing when to MYOB. 🤷‍♂

@RedBaron calm down it's a 6 month relationship, not a marriage. I'm just trying to show her that I'm there for her.
You people are acting as if I told her to leave him. I just told her that he's weird and she started crying. How is that not concerning?

@writhe
An outside observer could say the same to you. Calm down.

@Mudkip I don't get what so many of you people find so outstanding about this post.

@jefferson I don't care about your country

@NativePortlander1970 yeah because this has never happened in the history of the world ever.