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Princess54 · 70-79, F
I’m trying to understand your point. If something bad happened to you it’s your fault? Stop playing the victim? If you believe only in good nothing bad will happen to you?
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre If you think hard enough, no one is ever to blame for anything. I don’t put my effort into thinking that way though.
Wiseacre · F
The only time you can be blamed is when u do something awful consciously and de liberately.@Reject
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre What if their intentions were good? What if that person doesn’t see it as awful at all? What if in their mind they were perfectly justified and doing the right thing? This is subjective and not really for you to decide.

KamLee · 31-35
A victim is a victim. Doesn't make anyone weak, just a fact. It's not a mindset at all. You can call it survivor or whatever you want. Same thing but more disrespectful to those who don't survive (which has nothing to do with their mindset and everythingto do with perpetrators).
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Wiseacre · F
@Reject just curious: what did u do or say to be called a rapist?
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre I offended her I’m pretty sure. What exactly it was is hard to say. I think my post was enough.
What I've noticed is the gender of those who are attacking you.
Reject · 31-35, M
@RogueLodyte Right. 😄 I just don’t give people like that the time of day. She could have just disagreed and left the post alone. The fact that she showed up just to fight about it tells me everything. People like her only care about you agreeing with them or proving you wrong somehow if you don’t agree because they need to be validated by you. That’s what happens when you don’t love yourself and need some sort of help from others. That’s what being a victim does to people. It makes them spread even more negativity than there already was. It’s sad, but also not my problem.
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Reject · 31-35, M
@RogueLodyte Hey, if it entertains you, then I fully support that decision. I’m all for making the most of things and appreciate anyone who can.
Wiseacre · F
Too simplistic. There is a reason why ppl do the things they do. The things one makes happen could be the result of lifelong trauma.
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre There’s always a reason. For everyone, for anything.
Wiseacre · F
@Reject yes
KittenSmitten0 · 26-30, F
People who think this way have no legitimate problems or intelligence, I swear. Shaming people for not reacting or being how you think they should be from a situation is just as vile. Making yourself superior simply because you assume victimhood is a thing or that you'll never have mental health issues for example.. get a grip. Maybe use the same energy to support others instead of assuming your better. The only hero you are is for your ego.


Have the day you deserve. ❤
Reject · 31-35, M
@KittenSmitten0 I certainly will! Thank you.
having someone to blame removes any personal responsibility 😇
Wiseacre · F
Ur on a different planet.very short sighted. Ppl are complex.@Reject
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre I am very different from most people. If you think so different that puts me on another planet, then you have no reason to heed the things I say.
Wiseacre · F
@Reject Ty for saying ur very different.

 
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