Victimhood is a bigger criminal than any amount of culpability.

You cannot change what happens to you, but you can change how you handle it.
To be a victim is to believe one’s innocence in a cruel world that made them. They were wronged by it so they need help.
To be a survivor is to believe one’s strength in a kind world they made. They support it because they are the help.
Moral superiority is a crutch for those without the character to be moral.
There is no better that can be based on what you receive. There is only consequence that comes from what you give.
Right and wrong isn’t a matter of what happens. It’s a matter of what you make happen.