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Victimhood is a bigger criminal than any amount of culpability.

You cannot change what happens to you, but you can change how you handle it.
To be a victim is to believe one’s innocence in a cruel world that made them. They were wronged by it so they need help.
To be a survivor is to believe one’s strength in a kind world they made. They support it because they are the help.
Moral superiority is a crutch for those without the character to be moral.
There is no better that can be based on what you receive. There is only consequence that comes from what you give.
Right and wrong isn’t a matter of what happens. It’s a matter of what you make happen.
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What I've noticed is the gender of those who are attacking you.
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@KamLee Defense? I merely stated what I observed. Is that a problem? Maybe I should close my eyes so you won't be so triggered and traumatized.
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@RogueLodyte It is usually women who are the biggest victims as they more often live a life of inherent value and have more validation from others as a result, primarily in their youth. Men typically have an easier time understanding the things I say because for us our worth isn’t granted and we often have to earn our keep. There’s pros and cons to either gender but I’d say a big con facing women is how prone to victimhood that early privilege makes them. It’s very easy to become dependent on others as one.
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@RogueLodyte Right. 😄 I just don’t give people like that the time of day. She could have just disagreed and left the post alone. The fact that she showed up just to fight about it tells me everything. People like her only care about you agreeing with them or proving you wrong somehow if you don’t agree because they need to be validated by you. That’s what happens when you don’t love yourself and need some sort of help from others. That’s what being a victim does to people. It makes them spread even more negativity than there already was. It’s sad, but also not my problem.
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@RogueLodyte Hey, if it entertains you, then I fully support that decision. I’m all for making the most of things and appreciate anyone who can.