What we see is a marvelous person, one who we love knowing is a fellow SW member. You are a prize to us, a jewel. We are here for you on your bright days as well as your cloudy ones because you're there for us.
Thank you for being here.
Thank you for being here.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@onrealityofdreams you are welcome,I guess 😁 lol
PhoenixPhail · M
I feel very much the same way and always have. There's something about interacting with people, be it on social media or real life, that doesn't feel safe. I've had all the experiences I want with information I've entrusted to people getting blown out of proportion and backfiring in my face.
I truly think people crave negativity about others. And if they have a misunderstanding or a NONunderstanding about someone or something, they'll fill in the blanks with some worse-case scenario to soothe their own fears and insecurities.
This is why I've become very cautious in showing people my true colors. They're just too easily prone to fear-based misinterpretation.
As much as I would like to find non-judgmental companionship, it's a good time in history to fast from people and keep my mouth shut.
By the way, Happy Birthday!
I hope it's a great day for you.
I always enjoy seeing you here. 😊
I truly think people crave negativity about others. And if they have a misunderstanding or a NONunderstanding about someone or something, they'll fill in the blanks with some worse-case scenario to soothe their own fears and insecurities.
This is why I've become very cautious in showing people my true colors. They're just too easily prone to fear-based misinterpretation.
As much as I would like to find non-judgmental companionship, it's a good time in history to fast from people and keep my mouth shut.
By the way, Happy Birthday!
I hope it's a great day for you.
I always enjoy seeing you here. 😊
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@PhoenixPhail thank you so much for the birthday wishes
PhoenixPhail · M
@Justmeraeagain You're welcome. ☺
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
You are not alone.
You are just different and unique.
I truly know you feel, as an introvert myself.
Rule of thumb is 80% of the world is against us.
Only few matter,those who appreciate us on a deeper level, including our moments of silence.
I certainly feel that I do not have much in common with most people,or their style / personalities.
Haven't read many of your posts but you seem a very gentle and caring person.
Have a wonderful , birthday.
🙂
You are just different and unique.
I truly know you feel, as an introvert myself.
Rule of thumb is 80% of the world is against us.
Only few matter,those who appreciate us on a deeper level, including our moments of silence.
I certainly feel that I do not have much in common with most people,or their style / personalities.
Haven't read many of your posts but you seem a very gentle and caring person.
Have a wonderful , birthday.
🙂
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@scorpiolovedeep thank you so much for the happy birthday wishes
Renkon · M
Shyness and reserve aren’t flaws; they’re forms of sensitivity .....a heightened awareness of nuance, emotion, and honesty. People like you often feel out of place in a world that rewards performance over presence. Yet that very sensitivity is what gives your poetry its soul.
There’s great strength in this .....but it’s also lonely. Maybe the next step isn’t to change who you are, but to bring more of your inner world into contact with others
So, who are you?
You’re a deeply reflective soul learning to translate an inner richness into a world that doesn’t always know how to receive it. And that’s not confusion .... that’s courage in progress.
There’s great strength in this .....but it’s also lonely. Maybe the next step isn’t to change who you are, but to bring more of your inner world into contact with others
So, who are you?
You’re a deeply reflective soul learning to translate an inner richness into a world that doesn’t always know how to receive it. And that’s not confusion .... that’s courage in progress.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Renkon ☺
kodiac · 22-25, M
Everything you wrote could have come from me . Even the poetry part .I'd love to read yours ,but i bet it's a little scary posting because we never know what the reactions will be .
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@kodiac it can, be but I just post anyway.
AngelaR80 · 41-45, F
Happy birthday.
I understand the trying to find the real you thing going on.
I understand the trying to find the real you thing going on.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@AngelaR80 Thank you
bijouxbroussard · F
Happy Birthday, Rae ! 🎂🥂🎁🛍🎊🎉🪅
As always you’re good, kind and authentic. One of my favorites both here and on EP. 🤗
As always you’re good, kind and authentic. One of my favorites both here and on EP. 🤗
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@bijouxbroussard Thank you,my friend
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I can honestly say that you are a good, loving, responsible, and honest person with a little bit of young girl peeking through.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Livingwell Thank you that is a very nice thing to hear.
OriginalNedKelly · M
Happy birthday my dear friend, same date as Mrs. Kelly
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@OriginalNedKelly Aww...hope her day was happy.
Thank you
Thank you
i understand this. it’s okay not to be a social butterfly. and not knowing who you are, it’s a lifelong process.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Happy birthday!
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Jenny1234 Thank you
Perry1968 · M
Happy birthday. 58 in may for me 🙄😆
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Perry1968 We almost pensioners as they say in your neck of the woods
Perry1968 · M
@Justmeraeagain Not over here. They give you youth for free lol. Goalposts have been moved meaning from this year its 66 and 67 for retirement. Weve still got 9 years here. Then when your all worn out the house you worked hard for (if you have one) gets sold off for some poor 18 year old to wipe your backside in a care home.
Happy Birthday! 🫂
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@OlderSometimesWiser Thank you
Happy Birthday!!! ❤💐
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@mindstruggle Thank you
LaNinaRosa · F
I hope in time you break the cycle, you’re not alone. 🕊
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Happy birthday 💐💐
Enjoy your special day.
Enjoy your special day.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Nick1 Thank you
Thrust · 56-60, M
🫂 happy birthday, if you can!
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Thrust Thank you
Degbeme · 70-79, M
*clear throat*
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday Dear Red.
Happy Birthday tooooooooooooo yoooooooooou!
Wishing you a wonderful day. I hope you get spoiled.
🥰🎈🎂🎼🎶🎵🎈🤗
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday Dear Red.
Happy Birthday tooooooooooooo yoooooooooou!
Wishing you a wonderful day. I hope you get spoiled.
🥰🎈🎂🎼🎶🎵🎈🤗
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Degbeme Thank you
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Your a good egg happy Birthday
Musicman · 61-69, M
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Musicman Thanks that cake looks good