@Conscience
Since I don't know you, Conscience, I can only answer your remark in the most general fashion. When it comes to dating or flirtation between girls and guys, it has very little to do with knowing how "worthwhile" someone is. It's about the gratification one gets from knowing that one is desirable. And, let me tell ya, being "desirable", even though it's a big time hoot for the ego, the club scene and the media like TV and movies....it has rarely anything to do with the things or human characteristics that make life and people "valuable." You know what I mean....one's intelligence, capacity for empathy, one's commitment to living with integrity...which means being honest or humble even when it doesn't appear to serve you.
These qualities are "internal" qualities....they are not seen on the exterior like a pretty face or a nice physique....they have to be discovered. And discovery takes time.
I think one of the best ways to use "time" is to belong to a group that is committed to making the world a better place. Select a group with a cause you are passionate about around a theme that is genuinely constructive versus intent on creating division among people. It's the difference between "Habitat for Humanity" where one builds homes for the poor versus a political group that spends its time denouncing others.
A group that supports helping others is where you are likely to find others like yourself. Caring people. Sensitive people. People who will spend time with you. And VOILA, over time, some lucky girl will discover you....the real you. And believe me....when it's mutual and the physical chemistry is there....you will be floatin' on a cloud.
Best wishes,
Lily
