What is a defense mechanism you have that you want to change?

I will often laugh and joke with people when they're being unkind to me or sarcastic etc..instead of being assertive and saying my feelings, I just laugh or return with a slight sarcasm joke. This feels very defeating and I'm tired of acting like something is ok when it's not.

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Levenrack · 46-50, M

Well this was written for your last post you just got rid of. Lol Here you go......

Yeah, give it a moment to stew over. Do people still say "let things happen organically?"

LOL, just R-E-L-A-X, as Rodgers said during the 2014 season when GB started out with a 1-2 record. Finished the season at 12-4.

Though this really has nothing to do with your messages with the guy. It's still an interesting factoid.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Levenrack Lol. Ya I decided to delete when received no response. But, sometimes I'll get replies an hour later, I should have left it lol. Thank you, appreciate your support. I hope it didn't push them away but I wanted to be up front. I guess will just play it by ear.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Levenrack And that is a cool fact yes. Just like the Patriots weren't doing great over twenty years ago, and after a few games starting Brady, uhhhh they became a dynasty!!! Talk about a turn around lol

Levenrack · 46-50, M

@Coralmist Indeed. 😊