Don't get me wrong, I'm h0rny too

But I've realized that bf is only nice to me when he wants s/ex. Last night I could have given in, but I held strong and kept deflecting him every time he would ask for s/ex.

I told him it's his prerogative if he wants to seek s/ex outside our relationship but his behavior is going to have to change permanently if he ever wants me again.

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Frostcloud · F

so lame of him. reminds me of when i see a man post bc he's annoyed he helped with dishes for the first time in the whole relationship and his partner still didn't want sex with him after. kindness, doing the bare minimum physically or emotionally in a relationship, isn't transactional for sex 🙅‍♀ i hope things get better for you soon