No, it's not too heavy to see

I am happy to hear you feel loved by the people back home!

When I made a big move from where I grew up, I also lived alone. For the longest time, I did not really connect with the people around me

But eventually that changed for the better. And while our two stories are probably different as to the specifics, I can easily imagine the same will happen to you .

I have something similar with my family

They almost seem consigned to the fact that they’ve lost me in some way

They’re failing to realize, that I’m doing what I need to do right now in order to get to where I need to get

and that’s a better place than they ever envisioned for me

People often fall in the trap of only seeing a situation through one vantage point, and that point being from their own perspective.


One of my biggest strengths is understanding multiple perspectives and gaining insight to the thought processes and motivations (intentions) that propels others to do and say the things that they do

I often say, it’s not the act that I react to….but the intent behind the act
I try my best to keep my emotions away from making my decisions

It's okay to post your inner thoughts and feelings.

I think it's sweet that you feel so much compassion for other people's concerns.

I'm with @calicuz miracles do happen😀

Its the Atticus Finch principle,"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... until you climb into his skin and walk around in it,"

Just keep on keepin on

It is okay to be genuine
You don't have to be all jokes and humor
It is okay to show this side...
We are anonymous and that's what makes the beauty of the interactions here.

It makes sense to feel heavy when you’re holding so much. Please remember you don’t owe anyone a neat version of what you’re feeling. So if posting helps you breathe a little then post. The people who get it will hold space for you ❤

No one can tell someone else how to cope, unless that someone is harming themselves with drugs or alcohol.
You take of you, the way you know how to take care of yourself, and if those around you truly love and care for you as they say, they will be there for you when you resurface.

Just be you, love. You're doing the best you can & if that's not good enough for them, too bad, that's their problem, don't let it be yours.

You don't ever need to apologize for writing about how you feel.

You process however you want. If your ever feeling to down then I’ll have @Bexsy tell one of her weird jokes.

Your posts, no matter the mood, are a part of you. And that to me is beautiful. 🤗

Be however you need to be, it's their issues, not yours. You're allowed to feel however you feel.

SW is a support place ontop of a fun place, we're here for you!!

Things can fall apart to be built back up 🌻

Maybe you’re in a dark place to grow, like a seed planted in darkness, keep watering yourself. 🌱🪴🌷

You can't always have those who "get" and support you near.

Here for you, ms!

Fresh air and a walk in the park might help? A forest is even better.

Post whatever you want boo it's better to let your feelings out than let them drive you crazy

Try to do what you can to take care of yourself and relax

I forgot you are near tbe area of all that craziness. Stay safe. I wish you well like always