But one thing you're not gonna do is make me feel bad for taking care of myself and being independent. I'm not married, no kids, I work full time at a stressful day job that I hate, and I do cam work on the side to help. I have a bf but he does not support me financially.
I feel like I'd be judged no matter what- if I was a housewife I'd be called lazy, unmotivated. If I asked for help I'd be called a bum or a gold digger. But no, I'm a hard worker who occasionally does cam stuff to earn a little extra (trust me it's not much) and I still get judged.
Point of the story- IF YOU DON'T WANT TO PROVIDE FOR ME, HOW IS IT ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS HOW I PROVIDE FOR MYSELF???
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@DearAmbellina2113 Don't say that, don't put yourself down. It's 95% attitude, I'm sure there's something about you that gets someone's attention, you're just not seeing it at the moment..
