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Would you do a silent retreat?

People keep telling me about them. I don’t know if I’d want to be alone with my thoughts that long. No devices no interactions with others.
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being · 36-40, F
I've been 4 times
I've also done my silent campings now and then for a week to 10 days and once I dipped myself in the forest and remained silent for about 20 days.
It's interesing, difficult to explain the works of silence through speech. I'd recommend it.
@being wow that sounds very cool. What did it feel like after the 20 days?
being · 36-40, F
@Notladylike an absolute rebirth and ecstatic to talk...I was truly so excited and naturally happy that I had a hard time to integrate back at home. As I was surrounded by nature and everything was alive, returning back, the walls felt dead to me in a way that I've never perceived before.
I stayed in a camping for a month, in a tent, but after about 20days I began small excursions to a nearby village and I slowly introduced myself back to talking.
Jacobwinsagain · 31-35, M
I tried it once after being recommanded by other people amd it's not for me. It was driving me insane. I'm quite an extravert. The no device stuff went well but the social isolation for me was torture. My thoughts were overflowing with the good, the bad and the ugly. My desire for conversation killing me. I didn't finish the 3 days I was supposed to stay.
Yeah, so there's a concept called i'tikaf in the last 10 days of Ramadan which is essentially what you just mentioned. It's not compulsory but if I was in the headspace, I'd definitely do something like this.
@HijabaDabbaDoo That’s interesting, I’m intrigued but agree you’d have to be in the right headspace going in
icedsky · 51-55, M
I've done a couple out in the mountains. Basically a long hike by myself. No cell service. Didn't see a soul. Was pretty refreshing really.
Thinking about reserving a remote Airbnb that is advertised as a secluded retreat. Rustic, but not completely without modern amenities. The issue I would have being totally disconnected is if there was some kind of emergency.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Id absolutely go tbh
But id recommend being in the right headspace too as it could completely ruin you

Do it at a time where you need that peace and solitude hun
@Gangstress That is solid advice. I think I might be ruined at this point in my life. Maybe in a few more years.
I absolutely would.

I get so tired of talking and needing to say the right thing.
@MarbleMarvel I don’t have a great filter people either like me or they don’t. I’m not likely to say the right thing 🫠
Heretochat · 46-50, MNew
OMG no......I can't be silent at all......
Talking is an important part of my loife
Tumbleweed · F
Yes I would!
GerOttman · 61-69, M
I'd like to try an isolation tank, I think. A Buddhist retreat for a month would be nice too I bet.
I don't think I could handle that either.
@NerdyPotato I don’t really see the point but several people have told me how life changing the experience is. I get the no devices part but the silence part seems too hard
Ferric67 · M
Welcome to my world
Are books allowed on a silent retreat? If so, count me in!!
@ElwoodBlues Good question. I’ll ask the people I know that have been
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
If I removed my devices then I'd be in a perpetual silent retreat 😐 I think I could handle it lol, but no it doesn't interest me in the least
i dont know what that is
@deadinternet You pay to go away on a holiday where you can’t talk to anyone… it’s all about meditation and stuff
metaldog · 51-55, F
You could start by just doing a couple of days
@V00doo How long could you handle?
@Notladylike Probably a day. Anything more would be torture
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@MethDozer I could see you being very happy in that space.

 
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