if you're a man, how can you hide 'desperation'

desperation for the opposite sex? especially if you're a solitary male, had flings in your youth, but have never had a long term girlfriend due to mental problems and are now in your late 40s.

what can you do? i know desperation frightens women off and is not attractive so how do you hide it?

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4meAndyou · F

Take acting classes. I think being instructed in acting would help you in your whole life, in general. When you go out, for example, you could ACT as though you were a friendly person.

If you meet a woman you like, you could ACT as though you meet nice women every day and it's no big deal.

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@4meAndyou thanks a lot for your tips, it isn't easy but i can only try out things.