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My personal thoughts and feelings about what it's all about. :)

That is, life itself (not 'Similar Worlds'). I'm in the middle of having a discussion with someone here on SW who actually likes talking about the things that actually matter and who, like me, despises "small talk". We were on the topic of meaning and purpose, and this was one of my responses.

What many don't seem capable of comprehending is the fact that the very question of meaning and purpose is itself largely incoherent; it's nonsensical to begin with, on a par with asking what the sky tastes like. It's been said by many, many who should know better one would think, that this quest, this "quest for meaning" is inherently human, but it could be reasonably pointed out that this is yet more evidence that this particular way of thinking has become far too ingrained, at least in the West, with its Judeo-Christian roots, where an external source ("God") is what apparently bestows meaning, and that this is something we should even bother with.
Our minds have become far too cluttered with irrelevant nonsense, our world far too noisy with pointless chatter. I was just before sitting outside, enjoying the peace and quiet with my cat beside me, and she seems to be happy not knowing about any of this. Such thoughts don't trouble her, and there have been times when I would envy those who are simply not capable of worrying about all of this, and who just get on with life each day as it comes.
I won't write that book, mainly because I just don't need to. Others have touched on these topics countless times before, and now as I sit here I have one of those books on my desk: 'Zen Flesh, Zen Bones', by Paul Reps. I'm in no way a Zen Buddhist, but for those who are searching for answers to life's "Big Questions", this book offers the advice (among many, many other things) to just relax, be quiet, stop this endless searching, and just observe. Actually LIVE.
That, I believe, is what it's all about; life's purpose is to live, to experience, to gain experiences to learn from, and to evolve. Life is change, constant change, and we need to accept that and not become too attached to anything at all, but especially our beliefs about how the world is or should be.

I think this basically sums up what I believe to be true at this point in time. If I'm actually wrong, about any or all of this, that won't be a catastrophe, because I don't allow my beliefs to define who I am. That's a mistake that far too many people make, and it's really annoying, so don't do it!
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twistedrope · 26-30, M
Imo life is just the means to make ones decisions. That is why a life decided by others is hallow and empty. With agency, comes responsability. With thoughtfulness, comes reprecusions. This is such a way that man, beast and every matter of mineral or bacteria comes to find meaning through choosing how to act when presented with something during its life.

That is a life lived fully. However, the words themselves provide little help or context when spoken as most people simply aren't ready.

In more holistic terms, meaning or why we are here could be the question lurking in the mind of someone who feels they have "missed out" and is a mental stress being presented and explained through a philosophical lense. Really, it is the minds response to stress and the question is just its best guess as to tje source.

It could be a creative work, experiencing love or positivity during inevitable suffering as viktor frankl says. I think that is the most practocal useable explanation.

Not really a response directly as I just wished to share my thoughts selfishly. I think differently to the above and wished to say it as the question of "why are we here" and meaning is contextual and changes whatever framework should be used dependant on situation or inquiry. I do not believe it is "largley incoherent" in any fashion or nonsensical in the slightest. It is a very real question from a sensation, sometimes even born from a felt holllow sesnsation felt. It also has with it many real answers in many different time periods and peoples... Take your pick and see what feels right I suppose. If it feels right, retesting never gets old.